★爸媽安心育兒系列★
育兒路上常常力不從心、手足無措？
雖然帶孩子已老神在在，但想尋求更多安心教養之道？
兒童心理醫師專業解惑，讓父母放下質疑對錯的重擔
在0～3歲最關鍵成長的這三年，
打造讓孩子勇敢向前的保護傘，
育兒從此不疲憊、不心累！
★從小天使到小惡魔，充滿挫折的教養路
從第一次伸手捧著自己的孩子開始，看著懷裡小小的、軟綿綿、紅撲撲臉蛋的小傢伙，身為父母的我們經常想著：「啊～希望寶貝平安長大，健康幸福就好。」但是隨著日子一天天過去，教養路上的挫折卻經常磨損了我們這樣簡單的信念。
本書作者經過無數次的個案諮詢與研究後，深刻體會家有幼齡孩童父母的慌張與焦慮，和聽不懂言語的小半獸人互動中產生各種失措與焦躁，加上旁人過多的指點，讓育兒路上更無所適從。
因此作者以兒童心理的專業角度，提出了「給對愛就不怕寵壞」的安心育兒之道，指引父母如何以正確態度面對彼此的「第一次」，如何給對孩子適切回應，察覺孩子的真實需求，找回寬心教養的力量。如果您是以下的家長，那麼你一定要看這本書：
◎剛走在育兒路上，每天看著懷裡的小寶貝卻手足無措的新手父母
◎已有老大經驗，但仍然覺得育兒之路好挫折的雙寶、三寶爸媽
◎育兒之路已經走得老神在在，想繼續探索安心教養之道的爸媽
◎希望能為寶寶每個成長的「關鍵第一次」留下回憶的父母
★能感受父母之愛的孩子最幸福
0～3歲的孩子講不聽、也說不動，從小天使變成了小惡魔，每天都在測試爸媽的耐心底線。面對哭鬧不休的小小孩，我們經常斷了理智線、煩躁不已，但是在吼罵過後，又開始懊悔自己的兇悍，又沮喪於自己的教養是否失敗的疑慮，甚至開始懷疑自己是否能養育出幸福的孩子。以下這些困境，身為父母的你是否覺得很熟悉：
◎寶寶哭個不停，餵了奶、換了尿布還是哭不停
◎孩子愛生氣，一哭就是一個小時
◎孩子只要不開心，就會打父母、丟玩具
◎家中兩個孩子總是吵架搶玩具，學不會分享
◎孩子愛搗蛋，常常在幼稚園捉弄同學
0~3歲時期，是我們能為孩子打造「自我肯定感」的心靈基礎年齡，所謂的自我肯定，簡單來說就是讓孩子抱持著「自己是很重要的」、「活得有價值」、「被需要」的心情。這不需要額外多做些什麼，就像被媽媽抱在懷裡的感覺，就算偶爾鬧個小脾氣，也能繼續一起大笑，透過生活中的點點滴滴，一起享受共處的時光，就能培養出肯定自我的價值。而書中作者還提出更多新世代的教養觀念：
1、落實「境教」，給孩子安心的環境
「境教」就是讓孩子在充分安心的環境下長大。有了安心的環境，就能養成健康的心態，才能培育出終其一生幸福的正向性格。
2、嬰兒的「語言養成」，跟孩子說越多他越安心
父母平時就要和孩子多說話，尤其換尿布、大哭時，將孩子的負面情緒轉述出來，「不舒服嗎？」、「寂寞了嗎？」，更能安撫寶寶的情緒。
3、撒嬌不是錯，適當依賴更會獨立
其實，孩子只要在情緒得到滿足，反而比較會說「我要自己做！」。不讓孩子撒嬌，就是對他撒手不管，這不是「獨立」，而是「孤立」。
★「寵愛，但不寵壞」，親子溝通這樣說
●孩子總吵著要買玩具，賴在賣場不走
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.同理孩子的心情「你喜歡這個對吧。但是說了不行，你很難過吧。」
2.哄哄他並抱緊他。如果沒有效果，就說明理由「但是，我們現在要……。」
3.即使這樣孩子還是不聽話，還是又哭又鬧，不行的事情還是要說不行。
反覆幾次後，孩子就會以自己的方式，學會這個家的規矩，也會慢慢聽你的話。
●孩子不收玩具，常常把玩具倒得到處都是
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.「你還想要一直一直玩對不對！」
2.「但是媽媽叫你把玩具收起來，你很難過對不對？」
3.「那媽媽傳送能收東西的能量給你喔！」
●睡前孩子要看卡通，說不行就大哭
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1. 「小花最喜歡佩佩豬了吧！」
2. 「但是媽媽卻說已經晚上了不能看！很難過吧。」
3. 「我們手牽手一起睡覺吧。已經沒事了喔！」
★媽媽們的育兒兩難，如何將愧疚轉換為愛的力量？
作者在諮商時也曾遇到這樣苦惱的媽媽：「原本因為愛孩子而離開職場，沒想到專心帶孩子之後卻發現每次面對孩子哭鬧，就會煩躁生氣，然後又對那樣的自己失望。」
其實每個孩子天生的氣質、性格各有不同，無須太過自責，當你對孩子發火發過頭時，就想著「現在的他這樣就很好了」，試著放鬆一下，現在做不到的，以後或許就能做到，這樣想就夠了。
研究顯示，「自我肯定感低」的父母，較容易在育兒路上產生自我質疑與焦慮情緒，間接影響到孩子的心靈。書中針對自我肯定感低的父母，提出如何正向自我鼓勵的建議，在養育孩子的過程中，愛的力量讓孩子幸福，我們也因此願意變得更強大。父母們是否也曾出現這些情緒難處：
◎身為職場媽媽，卻好想請育嬰假，每天都想陪著孩子……
→並不是一定要媽媽二十四小時陪伴，才能養出幸福的寶寶。研究顯示，托育的時間長短，並不會影響寶寶的發展，而是鮮少與家人好好吃一頓飯，才會左右孩子的發展。
◎沒想到請育嬰假之後，反而覺得天天面對孩子更容易煩躁……
→請先暫時放下重擔吧！即使會支出一些費用，還是把孩子送托兒所，反而會減輕一些壓力，也會對孩子更溫柔。父母自己要先開心，才能打造出一個開心養育孩子的環境。
◎每次放孩子一個人看卡通，就覺得自己是個失職的母親……
→父母總是很忙碌，做家事、煮飯、處理雜事，很難專心陪孩子玩。無法馬上回應孩子的撒嬌、陪伴時，只要好好傳達當下的狀況與心情，就可以讓他感到安心。
本書特色
► 專業解惑，育兒路上不茫然
兒童心理醫師親自出馬，針對養育嬰幼兒容易產生的疑惑，提出讓父母舒心的解答，教你順利教好0~3歲小小孩。
► 分齡解讀寶寶各階段的心靈發展狀態
圖解實際育兒情境的正確與NG觀念，讀懂孩子情緒，就能輕鬆解決教養大小事。
► 收錄讀者共鳴心聲，負能量一掃而空
運用生動可愛的輕鬆情境漫畫、貼切有趣的情節，讓家有嬰幼兒的父母產生共鳴，看著看著就會爆笑與流淚，負能量也一掃而空。
Specifications 規格
Dimensions：14.8 x 20.8 x 2 cm | 5.83 x 8.19 x 0.79 in
Contents: 320 pages
Publisher: 和平國際
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