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【面對錯誤/勇於承擔】
是誰用球打破了蜜蜂家的窗戶?
蒼蠅說不是牠做的,但牠有看見事情發生的經過。
於是蒼蠅向蜜蜂說了一長串的「事發經過」,
想證明自己和破掉的窗戶無關……
但最後,蜜蜂發現那顆球上竟然寫著蒼蠅的名字!
◎引導閱讀
每個人都會有犯錯的時刻,即使是大人,也會有做錯事情的時候,在成長學習過程中,除了讓孩子吸收各項新技能與知識外,讓他們去學習不害怕犯錯,並逐漸試著承擔責任,也是很重要的一個部分。當孩子願意勇於承認自己的錯誤,並嘗試著尋找解決與補救辦法時,也能從過程中找到適合自己的處事方式及態度,這將會成為孩子未來人生的養分,讓他們更有能力去主動面對挑戰及困難。
但是,當孩子犯錯時,他們內心難免會感到不安,一方面容易陷入否定自己的心理,另一方面也怕父母對自己失望,因此有的時候,便可能發生做錯事不願認錯,甚至編藉口推卸責任、怪東怪西的狀況,讓家長既生氣又頭痛。
故事裡的蒼蠅小子,便是這樣一個非常有「創造力」的編故事大王,牠不小心打破了蜜蜂的玻璃卻硬是不承認,原本一樁簡單的意外事件,在牠天花亂墜的講述下,竟演變成了一場「群蟲大亂鬥」的失控事件,故事場景隨著那顆肇禍的足球飛得又高又遠、情節也越來越誇大……總之,跟我蒼蠅是完全無關的!但……這編造的故事最後卻終結在一個令人啼笑皆非的疏忽上──孩子,這球明明寫著你的名字呢!(!)
這下完全沒辦法狡辯的蒼蠅,只得承認了這是自己犯下的錯誤,而又好氣又好笑的受害者蜜蜂先生,則提出了「補償方案」,讓沒有錢的蒼蠅用勞動來代替賠償。最終,蒼蠅決定負起一切責任,在完成一連串的任務後,牠體會到犯了錯就必須要做出彌補,並且比起說謊,還是說實話來得好。
下一次,當孩子不小心犯了錯,又開始想怪東怪西時,與其先破口大罵,不妨先緩口氣、然後拿出這個故事,帶孩子認識認識這隻「編故事冠軍」蒼蠅,親子一起藉由故事放鬆心情後,先與孩子聊聊、聽聽孩子的想法,確認他們是否碰上了什麼困難,抑或是真的不小心才犯錯,再一起討論解決辦法,並引導孩子明白──面對錯誤並勇於承擔,其實並不是一件可怕的事,而是值得我們學習與鼓勵的行為。
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Dimensions:19.24 x 29 x 1 cm | 7.57 x 11.42 x 0.39 in
Contents: 48 pages
Publisher: 東雨文化
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