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★謝玉蓮臨床心理師【專文推薦】──從「自我」到「群體」,讓孩子安心去探險
★日本亞馬遜讀者好評推薦,百萬父母最有共鳴的教養經典!
成為父母後,最感挫折的時刻,應該就是當孩子開啟「無限循環任性+耍賴+滾地鬼打牆模式」──在公共場合亂跑亂叫、不守規矩、鬧脾氣、打人、沒大沒小、說謊等行為,被孩子氣到火冒三丈、惹到快爆炸的那些時刻吧?孩子甚至會說出「最討厭媽媽了、我不要跟你好了」等令人傷透心的話語。
雖然我們都不是完美的父母,但為了孩子的安全及未來著想,還是希望孩子能懂事聽話,在成長路上可以一天比一天更好、更成熟。過去權威高壓、大吼大叫的管教方式,對孩子起不了作用,反而會因為在無形中與孩子心靈疏離。
到底「管教」該如何拿捏收放,才能讓孩子發自內心的聽話、親子關係更柔軟呢?
本書作者明橋大二瞭解所有父母在教養問題上的焦慮及徬徨無措,因此以情境漫畫的方式,輕鬆圖解親子在教養上的困境,並強調以培養孩子自我肯定為基礎,針對3~6歲的孩子心靈狀態,剖析孩子的情緒反應其真實內在,為所有的教養疑問提供專業而又溫暖的應對回應。
不打不罵,才能傾聽孩子內心的聲音;
不打不罵,才能真正地化解親子衝突,脫離失控懊悔的教養循環。
■孩子感到「被重視」,是一切管教的源頭
作者在親子諮商過程發現,管教和守規矩的源頭是「重視對方的心」,但是不認為「自己受到重視」的孩子,如何能夠重視別人呢?大多數父母都是用負面的情緒化言言與孩子溝通:
「我沒辦法抱你,我要拿東西!」
「你不覺得你這樣很丟臉嗎?」
「你這個壞毛病不改,我也沒辦法……」
「這個也不要、那個也不要,啊~~~你到底要什麼!?」
「不要邊走邊吃,很醜!」
這些話對孩子來說,都是否定的詞彙,父母不斷重複負面話語,孩子也會漸漸認為「爸媽討厭我、我是沒用的人」,教導孩子規矩是重要的,但是在學會守規矩前,更重要的是培養孩子的「自我肯定感」。
■改變生活小舉動,培養孩子的自我肯定感
孩子不是機器人,並不會因為一兩次的教導馬上就改變,請給孩子多一點時間,也給自己多一點寬容,不要把孩子的所有表現都扛成自己的責任,只要有耐心地依照本書的指導,一定能看到成果,孩子也會朝著好的方向改變。
孩子的成長是漸進式的,每個孩子成長幅度也是快慢有別,所以父母們不需要焦急,只要給對愛,孩子會在正向的管教中健康長大。作者在書中也提出許多生活上小舉動,就能幫助孩子培養自我肯定感:
✓一句「謝謝」就能讓孩子很開心,讚美讓心靈更茁壯
→就算只是簡單的小事也跟孩子說:「謝謝」,就能讓孩子知道自己能幫上別人的忙、別人也需要自己的幫助。
✓常常說「我都知道喔!」跟孩子站在同一陣線,一起開心難過
→「共感」是培養孩子自我肯定感最有效的一種途徑,就算只是單純的理解孩子難過的心情,孩子的心就能得到療癒,擁有力量自己重新站起來
■「中間叛逆期」是為孩子獨立做準備的重要階段
3歲孩子的第一叛逆期結束之後,很快「中間叛逆期」就要開始了。這個階段孩子的特色就是「頂嘴」,也就是「你說A我說B」的狀態,早熟的孩子從5歲就會開始,這也是代表孩子準備獨立的重要階段。面對易怒的孩子,父母更不該和孩子站在同等級上戰鬥,而是要退一步思考「為什麼孩子會這麼煩躁」,作者也提出與孩子有效溝通的三大重點:
重點1:即便覺得孩子做不到,也讓他試試看
「我知道了,那接下來你自己去做喔!」
→或許父母會認為不提醒的話,孩子就不會去做,不過還是耐心等待,如果結果仍失敗,孩子也會因為切身體會而學到了一課。
重點2:孩子嚴重反抗時,要留心孩子的壓力來源
「在幼稚園是不是有碰到討厭的事呢?」
→明明沒有特別干涉孩子,孩子卻嚴重反抗,這時就可以大膽推測,也許孩子在外面有什麼人事物造成他的壓力,或是與老師聯絡,找出問題點。
重點3:用擁抱軟化孩子的心, 千萬不要硬碰硬
「你是很了不起的哥哥,什麼都不用擔心喔!」
→這個階段的孩子雖然想要撒嬌,但是卻因為自尊從中阻撓,孩子也可能變得渾身是刺,因此父母記得不要硬碰硬,而是緊緊抱住孩子,創造獨處的時間,給孩子撒嬌的機會,孩子就會稍微坦誠一點。
【給父母們的教養心靈雞湯】
別被害妄想解讀孩子的言行是「看不起父母、把爸媽當笨蛋耍」,請相信孩子絕對沒有這樣的意圖。
等待孩子成長,先暫時放下有時是必要的。
孩子不聽話,代表他自我意識開始萌芽,也是心靈順利成長的證明。
傾聽孩子、包容孩子,孩子的心情也會隨著自己受到大人珍視,而有所轉變。
其實孩子都知道答案,孩子只是希望不甘心、生氣的心情得到理解。
別為孩子事事包辦,保持恰當的距離感,是親子彼此開始相處的祕訣。
孩子大鬧一場後,別忘了給他一個緊緊的擁抱。
本書特色
★15個管教心法,完整剖析孩子真實內心
圖解孩子反抗、吃醋行為、甚至退化行為,一步步剖析兒童真實心靈與情緒,讓父母不再因為教養問題傷透腦筋。
★10大育兒煩惱,淡定面對孩子的叛逆期
總是質疑自己是否教養失敗的爸媽,從此寬心看待孩子的成長階段。
★6大教養關鍵,有效溝通代替打罵
如何適切的傾聽、理解與讚美,讓家有學齡前幼兒的父母輕鬆看待管教這門功課。
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蒙特梭利專家親授!教孩子學規矩一點也不難:淡定面對0~6歲孩子的情緒勒索,不用對立也能教出自律又快樂的孩子
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一起帶.冷便當:國民媽媽教你輕輕鬆鬆30分鐘,做出粉絲狂讚、美味又健康的每日餐盒
每天要花很多時間準備便當嗎?
有沒有更快速的方法?
什麼是冷便當?
便當放到中午不會壞掉嗎?
只要30分鐘
國民媽媽教你可以當日現做的美味便當
讓家人吃得更營養、更健康
★書中附有59道「國民媽媽保證讓你學會」實作影片」連結QRcode。
冷便當是指當日現做,
不用復熱即可享用,
常溫吃,更加可口安心。
IG粉絲詢問度最高的夢幻便當,
運用冰箱常備的當季與在地食材,
就能輕鬆做出大人、小孩都愛的便當菜,
現在就開始,為自己,也為家人準備當日現做的便當吧!
作者因為對一雙兒女的營養有所堅持,而開啟了媽媽手作便當的人生,她以「宜手作」之名在FB、IG、YouTube打下名號,並且在料理教室開課,帶領大家做出色香味俱全的媽媽愛心便當!
對於冷便當,許多人還是有不少疑問,宜手作針對網路上讀者最常提出的問題,在書中做了詳細的回答,「冷便當」是她在嘗試過各種便當型式後,覺得最值得推廣的方式,每天只要花少少的時間,就可以讓家人獲得最多的營養。
本書從一週備料開始,規劃了「一週冷便當」、「輕食冷便當」、「超商冷便當」、「湯品」,以及簡易又實用的「專欄TIPS」,超過50組的繽紛美味便當與湯品,讓你學習如何輕鬆在家準備當日現做的新鮮便當。
【美味推薦】
王輔立 君品酒店行政主廚/《型男大主廚》示範主廚
番紅花 作家
彭政閔(恰恰) 職棒球星/中信兄弟象隊球員
游惠玲 飲食作家
劉昭儀 我愛你學田市集負責人
(依姓名筆劃排序)
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雪平鍋無油料理:從煮物到甜點,一鍋搞定77道日本道地美食
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好好說慢慢懂,不吼不罵力量大!陪伴高敏感孩子的親子情緒教養課
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一本你希望父母讀過的書(孩子也會慶幸你讀過)
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輕鬆當爸媽,孩子更健康 超人氣小兒科醫師黃瑽寧教你安心育兒暢銷增訂版
2019暢銷增訂版
從四價流感疫苗介紹,
到親餵母乳建議、副食品吃法最新研究報告,
第一手育兒醫學資訊全面更新,
不怕落伍,爸媽更安心!
半夜不睡覺、吃飯不專心,該不該管教?
無緣無故發燒、不小心撞到頭,要不要就醫?
各種育兒現場的慌亂與困惑,讓黃瑽寧醫師給您最專業的解答!
媽媽們最信賴的小兒科醫師黃瑽寧,將在本書中,全面提供嬰幼兒照護需知與疾病介紹,詳實圖文幫助判別病徵、就醫時機,陪伴每位爸媽,輕鬆帶出健康快樂的寶寶!暢銷近十年,本書已成為家庭必備的育兒聖典。隨著醫學日新月異,再度推出「暢銷增訂版」,期待帶給讀者們,最新、最完善的資訊!
2019暢銷增訂搶先看!
‧2019四價疫苗全面實施
六月以上嬰兒,在每年十月接種公費疫苗,隔一個月要接種第二針,保護力會比較好。小孩不需要先吃過雞蛋,再來接種流感疫苗,這個網路謠言是錯誤的。
‧最新副食品建議
現代醫學已證實,太晚給副食品可能會增加過敏機率!因此,美國兒科醫學會與歐洲大部分的國家,現在大多是建議四到六個月開始為嬰兒添加副食品。副食品可以少量多樣化,跟著大人一起吃,一歲以前除了蜂蜜之外,只要是天然食材,都可以吃。
‧這樣算不算性早熟?
性早熟的定義是:女孩未滿八歲,男孩未滿九歲之前,提早出現第二性徵,否則都算是正常的發育。研究發現:雖然現代兒童的第二性徵,確實比古時候的人提早,但是長期追蹤下來,幾乎「所有」的孩子,最後都正常長大。
‧臺灣兒童近視率逐年攀升如何應對?
謹守「20-20-20-20」規範,遠離近視眼!當孩子在近距離用眼時(比如說看書):每二十分鐘,休息二十秒,開窗看二十呎的遠方(約六公尺遠),然後眨眼二十下。
‧其他增訂修改包括:草莓型血管瘤、兒童腸套疊、川崎症等嬰幼兒常見疾病與表徵,睡眠、飲食、便祕、包皮清洗等照護問題,以及嬰幼兒自慰等等。
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蒙特梭利教養進行式:翩翩園長的45個正向教養解方
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一吃就上癮!美味秒殺烤箱菜:100道零油煙超省時料理
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羅寶鴻的安定教養學:蒙特梭利、薩提爾、阿德勒,看懂孩子內在需求,培養正向、自信、穩定好性格
蒙特梭利專家、暢銷書《蒙特梭利專家親授!教孩子學規矩一點也不難》作者羅寶鴻全新著作
首度結合「蒙特梭利」、「正向教養」與「薩提爾的內在對話」三大派別集大成之書
◎隨書附贈「愛孩子的安定教養學」精美拉頁,幫爸媽劃重點
◎論述+真實教養案例+解說,一次讀懂蒙特梭利、阿德勒與薩提爾
寶鴻老師的安定教養金三角
用愛蒙特梭利,正向陪伴,以同理與覺察安定孩子與自己的內在。
從理論到方法,從孩子內在發展、有效溝通到情緒自由, 寶鴻老師教你如何教養孩子不NG,親子關係大提升!
寶鴻老師身為蒙特梭利專家、同時也是一個小男孩的爸爸,除了堅實的理論基礎外,透過粉專經營,累積大量與爸爸媽媽線上討論教養疑問的經驗,同時也在日常教學中,閱「孩」無數,是爸媽在教養路上,最信賴又溫暖的好夥伴。
不論你的孩子是學齡前或是小學生,各種教養困擾,都能在這本書找到解方。
0-6歲的孩子:最需要蒙特梭利
從蒙特梭利核心理論出發,順應兒童內在發展需求,教你看懂孩子行為背後的意義,不再以成人角度誤解孩子的需要,適時適當提供孩子愛的養分。
7-10歲的孩子:阿德勒正向教養是正解
以正向的態度與孩子溝通,建立生活常規,溫和而堅定的回應孩子
練習各種教養實戰「工具」,養成孩子正向人格。
爸爸媽媽自己與所有孩子:薩提爾是爸媽的好朋友
陪伴孩子覺察並適當表達自己的感受,釋放情緒,也陪伴身為爸媽的自己探尋內在小孩,以安穩的心靈接納孩子。
Dimensions 14.8 x 21 x 1.84 cm | 5.8" x 8.3" x 0.7"
368 pages
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你的2歲孩子-又好氣又惹人愛憐的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
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跟阿德勒學正向教養:解決日常教養問題1001種方法 溫和堅定27種態度╳92個教養現場難題,簡單實用,育兒更輕鬆!
全球銷售逾600萬冊「正向教養」系列,推出首部經典教養百科,實際操作的快速入手版!集合各年齡層、各種教養現場難題的育兒聖經,提點「正向教養」菁華,涵蓋引導和鼓勵孩子的實做心法與技法,獻給全天下為了教養問題傷透腦筋的父母,幫助你知道也能做得到!
在教養的路上,父母們時時刻刻會面臨各種挑戰,內心也充滿感慨,因為無論你多麼疼愛孩子,必定都有遭逢憤怒、挫折,甚至絕望的時刻。風靡全球的「正向教養」系列,秉持其核心概念,推出深入淺出、實用易讀、方便查找的教養百科,含括正向教養所需具備的27種態度及92種日常大小事件,詳細解說正向教養的概念與實際執行方法,深度分析問題行為背後的成因,一一提出因應之道,並列舉各種教養方式對孩子帶來的後續影響。全書架構簡單易懂,是「正向教養」系列最實用的快速上手入門之作,適用於任何年齡階段的孩子,探討所有你能想到的教養問題,為你提供深入分析及解答。
★正向教養百科,解決各種教養現場難題
.當孩子在超市裡發脾氣、耍賴,父母該怎麼辦?
.孩子們不吃晚餐、晚上不睡覺、早上拒絕起床時,父母們又該怎麼做?
.當祖父母溺愛孫輩時,父母該如何拿捏自己的教養風格?
.孩子幫忙做家事的時候,父母該給零用錢嗎?
.該幫孩子請保姆嗎?適當的分離是必要的嗎?
.孩子總是愛頂嘴,父母們如何以身作則?
.幫孩子洗澡宛如惡夢,叫他們洗澡總是一拖再拖,進了澡盆又不想出來。如何是好?
.孩子要求擁有一支手機,父母該答應嗎?
.該如何安排與孩子共同出遊的旅行假期?
★針對問題,抽絲剝繭,清楚明瞭,深入解析!
本書針對父母們最棘手的教養難題、最深層的育兒焦慮,一一提出精闢的解答。
第一部從教養態度、父母作為、親子溝通、家庭力量、規矩原則、理解與包容、尊重孩子的決定、情感的傳遞⋯⋯等,提點出正向教養的27種核心精神。
第二部是全書重心,整理所有父母在教養現場中面臨的難題,採「問」「答」方式,將問題以簡單明白的方式條列,讓讀者能迅速對應問題並找出解方。書中並將問題按照年齡及各種情況分類,可按學齡前、學齡期、青少年期不同階段尋找各種因應方案,甚至含括收養、單親家庭、繼親家庭等親子關係,以及外出旅行、搬家、寵物等生活中各種狀況的探討。當你翻閱到針對特定教養問題的章節時,不僅能找到「現在該怎麼做」的具體建議,還包括「預防未來發生問題」的提點解析。每篇主題都有「教養指南」單元,可廣泛運用來解決其他衍生的問題,並幫助你了解孩子在回應父母的過程中所學到的事物。
父母在生活裡遇到的教養問題五花八門,可隨時針對問題翻閱本書找出解方,快速學到正向教養的菁華,養出自信、獨立、有責任感且與他人相互尊重的孩子。
本書特色
★「正向教養」系列叢書共出版22冊,以16種語言發行60國,全球銷售逾600萬冊。
★作者簡.尼爾森為阿德勒學派教養權威、美國風行40年的「正向教養」創始人。
★將「正向教養」的概念整理出核心應用工具,以深入淺出的方式讓讀者更能理解並應用。
★「正向教養」修訂版本與時俱進,納入電子產品等當代教養問題對策。
★台灣首位獲美國PDA正向教養協會認證導師及講師──姚以婷專文導讀、審訂。
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Recommended Age: Parents
Dimensions: 16.7 x 23 x 2.72 cm | 6.6" x 9" x 1"
Contents: 544 pages
Publisher: 大好書屋
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教養的真相:圖解孩子講不聽、叫不動,大人該懂的破冰對話(王宏哲全圖解教養的真相+神奇魔杖互動學習書)
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氣炸鍋零失敗再升級:73道新手不敗的減脂料理
喜歡吃炸物,但總擔心炸物讓孩子吸收過多油脂,不夠健康。而且在家裡起油鍋,弄得到處油煙、油垢,光清理,想到就頭痛!小家庭或單身貴族,家裡沒廚房就更傷腦筋……。
只要選對氣炸鍋,可以滿足口慾無負擔,跟傳統油鍋比起來最高可健康減油80%。
此外,氣炸鍋不僅僅只能炸,煎、烘、烤、焗及醬燒,一鍋搞定,超乎你對美食想像,讓人吃到健康不肥胖。
一個氣炸鍋在手,無論早午餐、下午茶、正餐、點心、帶便當,甚至下酒菜,只要手指動一動,就像哆啦A夢的萬用口袋,美食馬上送上桌。
本書不單單只有炸物,還有燒烤料理及焗烤、烘、焙等全部收錄,還有氣炸鍋的隱藏版料理,讓你好菜天天端上菜,營養天天不流失。
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先同理再講理,讀懂青春期,孩子不叛逆:日本權威心理醫師的肯定觀察法,察覺逆反訊號,陪伴孩子度過情緒波動期,打造有愛有溫度的親子關係
\日本專業兒醫明橋大二的「叛時代教養」新作/
★深入剖析青春期孩子的逆反心理★
易怒、省話、晚回家、離家出走、裝病拒學、經常受傷……
孩子透露的SOS訊號,你讀懂了嗎?
傾聽陪伴X心態改變X 信任原則
用包容與同理撫平青春期孩子的情緒波動,
打造有愛、有溫度的親子關係。
父母與青春期孩子的溝通練習──沈雅琪老師、謝玉蓮心理師【專文推薦】
感動480萬名父母心《0~3歲給對愛就不怕寵壞》、《3~6歲做對管教,不打不罵孩子更聽話》作者明橋大二暖心續作!
★走進孩子內心,肯定帶刺的青春期
呱呱墜地的小天使落入人間,大哭大笑是他們最直接的表現方式;慢慢成長後,開始會耍任性,有豐富的情緒表達方式。青春期是成為大人的一個過渡階段,約從國小三、四年級(10歲)開始一直到20歲左右,此階段逐漸成熟的思想,急速成長的身心變化,讓孩子們一方面脫離孩童模樣,同時也讓孩子充滿不安與疑惑,成長的焦慮讓孩子開始頂嘴、拒學、離家……,許多父母也視孩子叛逆難教,親子之間不斷衝突卻毫無實際溝通,以致親子關係逐漸惡化,父母天天沉浸在心碎崩潰的邊緣。
「你以為你是誰!煩死了別來吵我!」
「我才不是你的寶貝、你也不是我的寶貝!」
「反正跟你們說也沒用,我自己解決最快!」
曾幾何時,我的孩子變成長滿尖刺的仙人掌孩子?很矛盾,孩子時而對我撒嬌,時而對我發脾氣;很崩潰,搞不懂孩子究竟在想些什麼?青春期孩子出現暴怒、拒學、受傷、向父母要錢、晚回家、離家出走……那個每天都要跟爸媽擁抱的孩子,到哪裡去了呢?
本書作者明橋大二在學校輔導室及醫院診間諮商多年,他發現開始進入青春期的孩子,心情總是反覆動盪,一下覺得自己已經長大,想要裝作成熟世故,但是一下子又想回到童年,在父母身邊當個撒嬌的寶貝,其實青春期孩子的內心隱藏著許多訊息,等著父母們察覺:
「個性火爆」的孩子,是因為有太多鬱悶的情感;
「只想在家」的孩子,是因為如果不這樣做,傷人的現實就會接踵而來;
「習慣說謊」的孩子,是因為說出實情的話,反而要受到更糟糕的對待;
「沒有幹勁」的孩子,是因為滿懷幹勁地表達意見,也只會遭人否定。
★孩子的反抗,是為了期待被他人肯定與理解
孩子在成長過程中,會歷經學測、升學、社交等種種壓力,這些壓力來源是因為害怕父母用成績替他們打分數;大部分父母總是忍不住想以一己之力去改變孩子,會想著:「要是你可以再這樣一點的話……」、「為什麼你老是不這樣做呢……」父母想要改變孩子的心態,其實反而是在跟孩子說:「現在的你是不行的!」不知不覺間,向孩子傳遞出了否定的訊息,而孩子開始用負面態度回應,殊不知孩子的種種反抗,都是為了「期待能被他人肯定與理解」。
青春期的孩子內心敏感又脆弱,更容易因為他人的言語或霸凌,而自我評價低落,甚至萌生自殘、輕生的念頭,因此對青春期的關懷與教養更需謹慎。
作者在本書提出了深刻的提醒,面對惜字如金的青春期孩子,希望父母們能「先同理再講理」,而不是依照自己的想法窮追不捨、強迫開口。「同理心」才是最好的親子特效藥,對孩子賦予足夠的信任,孩子的內心就能得到支持與安慰,從中得到安定與獨立的力量。
★肯定,讓孩子更有安全感
孩子在青春期階段,無論是荷爾蒙作祟,或是在成熟與幼稚之間來回徘徊,他們經常會做出許多需要父母費心的行為。這時候,請別跟孩子抱怨:「為什麼你連這點小事都做不好?我們做爸媽的為了你都這麼忍耐了……」這樣的話語只會讓孩子覺得自己毫無價值,造成親子衝突不斷,其實孩子只是還不知道如何表達。作者建議父母先好好了解孩子在學校發生的事情,於是提出了與青春期孩子相處的十大守則:
1、放下想要「用大人的力量改變孩子」的想法。
2、放下對於孩子「 為什麼都不做某些事」的不滿。
3、肯定孩子現在所擁有的優點, 以及他盡己所能的努力。
4、不要再給孩子下達指示、命令或是任意干涉。
5、孩子向你說話的時候, 無論再忙碌都要仔細聆聽。
6、遵守和孩子的約定。
7、如果真的對孩子做了不對的事, 要直率地向孩子道歉。
8、放下想要以恐嚇、辱罵、體罰等方式讓孩子動起來的想法。
9、如果是非常擔心的事情, 要和孩子面對面好好談,確實地加以提醒。
10、多跟孩子說「 謝謝」、「謝謝你願意告訴我」在日常互動中提高孩子的自我評價。
★青少年時期最擔心霸凌問題,父母一定要察覺這些變化!
察覺孩子向父母傳遞求援的蛛絲馬跡相當重要,孩子邁入國高中時,成了省話一哥、一姐,在不願與父母溝通的情況下,嚴重低落的自我評價會引發孩子的脫序行為,本書也探討了現今社會關注的校園霸凌現象,作為探討孩子內心的主要議題,父母需要有所警惕,在名為霸凌的背後,可能牽扯到哪些與孩子互動上的隱性不良問題,當您發現孩子有以下變化,很可能是遭到霸凌的訊號:
‧孩子的身體、服裝出現變化──衣服莫名破損、弄髒、身上有明顯外傷
‧孩子的所有物出現變化──文具或小東西壞掉或不見,書本有被撕毀的痕跡
‧孩子的言行出現變化──不再提起學校的事,突然想說退出社團或轉學
‧孩子的感情出現變化──成績退步、老是發呆,容易生氣或哭泣
‧孩子表達出控訴──說出「有人找我麻煩」、「我的東西不見了」等話語
‧孩子發出的其他訊號──收到騷擾信、無聲電話或惡作劇電話,且相當頻繁
‧可能引發輕生念頭的危險信號──孩子突然說「好想要輕鬆一點」,且毫不惋惜地將寶貝的物品分送給別人,暑假或寒假結束前是最危險的時機。
作者諮商時發現,青春期孩子遭遇霸凌時,之所以對父母說不出口的理由,最常聽到的是「不想傷了父母的心」、「不想讓父母擔心」的這種心情。即便自己正飽受折磨,卻還是顧慮到父母的這種溫柔,令人擔憂也為之心痛。每個孩子的個性都不同,面對霸凌的表現也不同,因此身為父母要隨時觀察並關懷,孩子有任何不尋常的表現時,都要審慎瞭解是否遭遇霸凌。
★溫柔說、學放手,孩子的青春不消極
父母們面對孩子的青春期時會感到無所適從,因為青春期是孩子要「轉大人」的過程,許多孩子會有所謂的獨立思考,不願聽從父母的話、對父母表達控訴,卻又會對父母抱持著依賴性。孩子反抗的背後,其實代表著缺乏安全感,他們嚮往著「爸媽能多陪在自己身邊」、「能多聽聽我說的話」,孩子會觀察父母的生活方式與處世態度,並透過模仿學習,一點一滴潛移默化,才逐漸形塑出孩子的個性與品格,而父母面對孩子的訴求,耐心傾聽、同理回應才能達到良好的溝通。
現在開始,化身心靈偵探,聽聽孩子們怎麼說?他們的行為又透露著哪些訊息?透過接納和陪伴,讓我們在正確的溝通下,讀懂青春期孩子不願敞開的內心。
【孩子我想好好懂你,給父母的教養心靈雞湯】
♥不要讓筋疲力竭的孩子更加筋疲力竭,不要讓傷痕累累的孩子更加傷痕累累。
♥一個令孩子感覺不舒服的家,往往是家人之間的關係不那麼融洽,令人神經緊繃、感到窒息的家。
♥「拒學」代表孩子「心靈的溫控裝置」正在運轉
♥教養很重要,學習也很重要,然而最重要的,還是培育孩子的「自我評價」。
♥接受孩子真正的狀態,反而能看見孩子的優點
♥沒辦法撒嬌的人並不是獨立,能夠撒嬌的人才能夠獨立。
♥孩子在行為偏差或是犯罪跟前的最後一道防線,並不是規矩或是管教,而是受到爸媽無微不至的照顧,從中而生「不能背叛爸媽」的那份感恩之心。
► 情境圖解說明,秒懂孩子的不安與徬徨
透過貼近現實生活的情境插畫,深入剖析孩子的內心世界,洞察青少年反抗的原因,專業詳述孩子不願說出口的苦楚。
► 心理醫師專業經驗,破解孩子的逆反心理
針對青春期的惱人問題,提供相關共鳴經驗與正確觀念,坦然面對孩子的真實樣貌,學習放手並信任孩子所做的一切,父母不再因青春期的叛逆傷透腦筋。
► 時下霸凌議題分析,圖解孩子的內心角落
有鑑於霸凌事件頻傳,許多孩子因為霸凌而影響生活與求學,作者提出七大要素,讓父母透過觀察與傾聽來理解孩子,提出正確的支持與回應機制。
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Very cute! Perfect!!!
This was a fun book to read for my kiddo. Not only does it let her hear the foods in Chinese but it incorporates some food culture which she'll like try one day when we travel to Asia...and maybe she'll be able to order it in Chinese.
Cute, authentic, very high quality. Kids were so happy when they received the red packet! Picked up a few more Chinese words too!
Very cute! Perfect!!!
This was a fun book to read for my kiddo. Not only does it let her hear the foods in Chinese but it incorporates some food culture which she'll like try one day when we travel to Asia...and maybe she'll be able to order it in Chinese.
Cute, authentic, very high quality. Kids were so happy when they received the red packet! Picked up a few more Chinese words too!