3~6歲做對管教,不打不罵孩子更聽話:日本兒童心理醫師秒懂孩子的「有效溝通法」,改變管教口氣,孩子守紀律有自信!
★謝玉蓮臨床心理師【專文推薦】──從「自我」到「群體」,讓孩子安心去探險
★日本亞馬遜讀者好評推薦,百萬父母最有共鳴的教養經典!
成為父母後,最感挫折的時刻,應該就是當孩子開啟「無限循環任性+耍賴+滾地鬼打牆模式」──在公共場合亂跑亂叫、不守規矩、鬧脾氣、打人、沒大沒小、說謊等行為,被孩子氣到火冒三丈、惹到快爆炸的那些時刻吧?孩子甚至會說出「最討厭媽媽了、我不要跟你好了」等令人傷透心的話語。
雖然我們都不是完美的父母,但為了孩子的安全及未來著想,還是希望孩子能懂事聽話,在成長路上可以一天比一天更好、更成熟。過去權威高壓、大吼大叫的管教方式,對孩子起不了作用,反而會因為在無形中與孩子心靈疏離。
到底「管教」該如何拿捏收放,才能讓孩子發自內心的聽話、親子關係更柔軟呢?
本書作者明橋大二瞭解所有父母在教養問題上的焦慮及徬徨無措,因此以情境漫畫的方式,輕鬆圖解親子在教養上的困境,並強調以培養孩子自我肯定為基礎,針對3~6歲的孩子心靈狀態,剖析孩子的情緒反應其真實內在,為所有的教養疑問提供專業而又溫暖的應對回應。
不打不罵,才能傾聽孩子內心的聲音;
不打不罵,才能真正地化解親子衝突,脫離失控懊悔的教養循環。
■孩子感到「被重視」,是一切管教的源頭
作者在親子諮商過程發現,管教和守規矩的源頭是「重視對方的心」,但是不認為「自己受到重視」的孩子,如何能夠重視別人呢?大多數父母都是用負面的情緒化言言與孩子溝通:
「我沒辦法抱你,我要拿東西!」
「你不覺得你這樣很丟臉嗎?」
「你這個壞毛病不改,我也沒辦法……」
「這個也不要、那個也不要,啊~~~你到底要什麼!?」
「不要邊走邊吃,很醜!」
這些話對孩子來說,都是否定的詞彙,父母不斷重複負面話語,孩子也會漸漸認為「爸媽討厭我、我是沒用的人」,教導孩子規矩是重要的,但是在學會守規矩前,更重要的是培養孩子的「自我肯定感」。
■改變生活小舉動,培養孩子的自我肯定感
孩子不是機器人,並不會因為一兩次的教導馬上就改變,請給孩子多一點時間,也給自己多一點寬容,不要把孩子的所有表現都扛成自己的責任,只要有耐心地依照本書的指導,一定能看到成果,孩子也會朝著好的方向改變。
孩子的成長是漸進式的,每個孩子成長幅度也是快慢有別,所以父母們不需要焦急,只要給對愛,孩子會在正向的管教中健康長大。作者在書中也提出許多生活上小舉動,就能幫助孩子培養自我肯定感:
✓一句「謝謝」就能讓孩子很開心,讚美讓心靈更茁壯
→就算只是簡單的小事也跟孩子說:「謝謝」,就能讓孩子知道自己能幫上別人的忙、別人也需要自己的幫助。
✓常常說「我都知道喔!」跟孩子站在同一陣線,一起開心難過
→「共感」是培養孩子自我肯定感最有效的一種途徑,就算只是單純的理解孩子難過的心情,孩子的心就能得到療癒,擁有力量自己重新站起來
■「中間叛逆期」是為孩子獨立做準備的重要階段
3歲孩子的第一叛逆期結束之後,很快「中間叛逆期」就要開始了。這個階段孩子的特色就是「頂嘴」,也就是「你說A我說B」的狀態,早熟的孩子從5歲就會開始,這也是代表孩子準備獨立的重要階段。面對易怒的孩子,父母更不該和孩子站在同等級上戰鬥,而是要退一步思考「為什麼孩子會這麼煩躁」,作者也提出與孩子有效溝通的三大重點:
重點1:即便覺得孩子做不到,也讓他試試看
「我知道了,那接下來你自己去做喔!」
→或許父母會認為不提醒的話,孩子就不會去做,不過還是耐心等待,如果結果仍失敗,孩子也會因為切身體會而學到了一課。
重點2:孩子嚴重反抗時,要留心孩子的壓力來源
「在幼稚園是不是有碰到討厭的事呢?」
→明明沒有特別干涉孩子,孩子卻嚴重反抗,這時就可以大膽推測,也許孩子在外面有什麼人事物造成他的壓力,或是與老師聯絡,找出問題點。
重點3:用擁抱軟化孩子的心, 千萬不要硬碰硬
「你是很了不起的哥哥,什麼都不用擔心喔!」
→這個階段的孩子雖然想要撒嬌,但是卻因為自尊從中阻撓,孩子也可能變得渾身是刺,因此父母記得不要硬碰硬,而是緊緊抱住孩子,創造獨處的時間,給孩子撒嬌的機會,孩子就會稍微坦誠一點。
【給父母們的教養心靈雞湯】
別被害妄想解讀孩子的言行是「看不起父母、把爸媽當笨蛋耍」,請相信孩子絕對沒有這樣的意圖。
等待孩子成長,先暫時放下有時是必要的。
孩子不聽話,代表他自我意識開始萌芽,也是心靈順利成長的證明。
傾聽孩子、包容孩子,孩子的心情也會隨著自己受到大人珍視,而有所轉變。
其實孩子都知道答案,孩子只是希望不甘心、生氣的心情得到理解。
別為孩子事事包辦,保持恰當的距離感,是親子彼此開始相處的祕訣。
孩子大鬧一場後,別忘了給他一個緊緊的擁抱。
本書特色
★15個管教心法,完整剖析孩子真實內心
圖解孩子反抗、吃醋行為、甚至退化行為,一步步剖析兒童真實心靈與情緒,讓父母不再因為教養問題傷透腦筋。
★10大育兒煩惱,淡定面對孩子的叛逆期
總是質疑自己是否教養失敗的爸媽,從此寬心看待孩子的成長階段。
★6大教養關鍵,有效溝通代替打罵
如何適切的傾聽、理解與讚美,讓家有學齡前幼兒的父母輕鬆看待管教這門功課。
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在家玩蒙特梭利:掌握0~6歲九大敏感期,48個感覺統合遊戲,全方位激發孩子潛能(二版)
暴力語言、固執愛哭鬧、自我中心……
當孩子出現以下行為,請注意!
這表示:孩子的敏感期=學習爆發期到了!
.2歲半後,孩子常說:「我打你」「我踢死妳」等暴力語言!
家長OS:孩子居然想打我?我的孩子是不是有暴力傾向?
蒙特梭利:孩子經過模仿階段→發現語言會引起大人注意→實驗語言的力量!
.3歲時,不順孩子意就哭鬧!一定要「先穿衣,再穿襪子、褲子,最後才梳頭」
家長OS:孩子是不是太固執了!不行,我一定要讓他知道「彈性」「配合」的重要性!
蒙特梭利:孩子的秩序規律代表安全感,一旦打破會不安、恐懼→哭鬧→重來→才有安全感。
.2歲多,孩子常說「這是我的!誰都不能碰」「媽媽買給我的,你不能吃!」
家長OS:孩子會不會太自私了!我應該也要讓他懂得「分享」!
蒙特梭利:這是孩子社會化的敏感期到了→認知「我」→才能學會獨立→勉強孩子分享→反而會引起強烈的不安全→哭鬧循環……
關於敏感期——
▋0~6歲,是孩子各種學習力敏感期爆發最密集的階段。
▋九大敏感期:語言(0~6歲)、動作(0~3歲)、書寫(3.5~4.5歲)、閱讀(4.5~5.5歲)、秩序(2~4歲)、感官(0~6歲)、文化(6~9歲)、社會化(2.5~6歲)、對細微事物感興趣(1.5~4歲)。
▋順利通過一個敏感期,孩子的心智水準便從一個層面上升到另一個層面。
▋各個敏感期之間的發展快慢息息相關,例如:嬰兒手的敏感期會幫助口腔敏感期的發展;當孩子在動作敏感期裡的手腕、小肌肉能力打底打得好,書寫的敏感期就會提前……
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0~3歲給對愛就不怕寵壞:兒童權威心理醫師的心靈育兒法,化情緒難處為正面力量,陪伴孩子安心探索成長之路
兒童心理醫師專業解惑,讓父母放下質疑對錯的重擔
在0~3歲最關鍵成長的這三年,
打造讓孩子勇敢向前的保護傘,
育兒從此不疲憊、不心累!
★從小天使到小惡魔,充滿挫折的教養路
從第一次伸手捧著自己的孩子開始,看著懷裡小小的、軟綿綿、紅撲撲臉蛋的小傢伙,身為父母的我們經常想著:「啊~希望寶貝平安長大,健康幸福就好。」但是隨著日子一天天過去,教養路上的挫折卻經常磨損了我們這樣簡單的信念。
本書作者經過無數次的個案諮詢與研究後,深刻體會家有幼齡孩童父母的慌張與焦慮,和聽不懂言語的小半獸人互動中產生各種失措與焦躁,加上旁人過多的指點,讓育兒路上更無所適從。
因此作者以兒童心理的專業角度,提出了「給對愛就不怕寵壞」的安心育兒之道,指引父母如何以正確態度面對彼此的「第一次」,如何給對孩子適切回應,察覺孩子的真實需求,找回寬心教養的力量。如果您是以下的家長,那麼你一定要看這本書:
◎剛走在育兒路上,每天看著懷裡的小寶貝卻手足無措的新手父母
◎已有老大經驗,但仍然覺得育兒之路好挫折的雙寶、三寶爸媽
◎育兒之路已經走得老神在在,想繼續探索安心教養之道的爸媽
◎希望能為寶寶每個成長的「關鍵第一次」留下回憶的父母
★能感受父母之愛的孩子最幸福
0~3歲的孩子講不聽、也說不動,從小天使變成了小惡魔,每天都在測試爸媽的耐心底線。面對哭鬧不休的小小孩,我們經常斷了理智線、煩躁不已,但是在吼罵過後,又開始懊悔自己的兇悍,又沮喪於自己的教養是否失敗的疑慮,甚至開始懷疑自己是否能養育出幸福的孩子。以下這些困境,身為父母的你是否覺得很熟悉:
◎寶寶哭個不停,餵了奶、換了尿布還是哭不停
◎孩子愛生氣,一哭就是一個小時
◎孩子只要不開心,就會打父母、丟玩具
◎家中兩個孩子總是吵架搶玩具,學不會分享
◎孩子愛搗蛋,常常在幼稚園捉弄同學
0~3歲時期,是我們能為孩子打造「自我肯定感」的心靈基礎年齡,所謂的自我肯定,簡單來說就是讓孩子抱持著「自己是很重要的」、「活得有價值」、「被需要」的心情。這不需要額外多做些什麼,就像被媽媽抱在懷裡的感覺,就算偶爾鬧個小脾氣,也能繼續一起大笑,透過生活中的點點滴滴,一起享受共處的時光,就能培養出肯定自我的價值。而書中作者還提出更多新世代的教養觀念:
1、落實「境教」,給孩子安心的環境
「境教」就是讓孩子在充分安心的環境下長大。有了安心的環境,就能養成健康的心態,才能培育出終其一生幸福的正向性格。
2、嬰兒的「語言養成」,跟孩子說越多他越安心
父母平時就要和孩子多說話,尤其換尿布、大哭時,將孩子的負面情緒轉述出來,「不舒服嗎?」、「寂寞了嗎?」,更能安撫寶寶的情緒。
3、撒嬌不是錯,適當依賴更會獨立
其實,孩子只要在情緒得到滿足,反而比較會說「我要自己做!」。不讓孩子撒嬌,就是對他撒手不管,這不是「獨立」,而是「孤立」。
★「寵愛,但不寵壞」,親子溝通這樣說
●孩子總吵著要買玩具,賴在賣場不走
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.同理孩子的心情「你喜歡這個對吧。但是說了不行,你很難過吧。」
2.哄哄他並抱緊他。如果沒有效果,就說明理由「但是,我們現在要……。」
3.即使這樣孩子還是不聽話,還是又哭又鬧,不行的事情還是要說不行。
反覆幾次後,孩子就會以自己的方式,學會這個家的規矩,也會慢慢聽你的話。
●孩子不收玩具,常常把玩具倒得到處都是
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.「你還想要一直一直玩對不對!」
2.「但是媽媽叫你把玩具收起來,你很難過對不對?」
3.「那媽媽傳送能收東西的能量給你喔!」
●睡前孩子要看卡通,說不行就大哭
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1. 「小花最喜歡佩佩豬了吧!」
2. 「但是媽媽卻說已經晚上了不能看!很難過吧。」
3. 「我們手牽手一起睡覺吧。已經沒事了喔!」
★媽媽們的育兒兩難,如何將愧疚轉換為愛的力量?
作者在諮商時也曾遇到這樣苦惱的媽媽:「原本因為愛孩子而離開職場,沒想到專心帶孩子之後卻發現每次面對孩子哭鬧,就會煩躁生氣,然後又對那樣的自己失望。」
其實每個孩子天生的氣質、性格各有不同,無須太過自責,當你對孩子發火發過頭時,就想著「現在的他這樣就很好了」,試著放鬆一下,現在做不到的,以後或許就能做到,這樣想就夠了。
研究顯示,「自我肯定感低」的父母,較容易在育兒路上產生自我質疑與焦慮情緒,間接影響到孩子的心靈。書中針對自我肯定感低的父母,提出如何正向自我鼓勵的建議,在養育孩子的過程中,愛的力量讓孩子幸福,我們也因此願意變得更強大。父母們是否也曾出現這些情緒難處:
◎身為職場媽媽,卻好想請育嬰假,每天都想陪著孩子……
→並不是一定要媽媽二十四小時陪伴,才能養出幸福的寶寶。研究顯示,托育的時間長短,並不會影響寶寶的發展,而是鮮少與家人好好吃一頓飯,才會左右孩子的發展。
◎沒想到請育嬰假之後,反而覺得天天面對孩子更容易煩躁……
→請先暫時放下重擔吧!即使會支出一些費用,還是把孩子送托兒所,反而會減輕一些壓力,也會對孩子更溫柔。父母自己要先開心,才能打造出一個開心養育孩子的環境。
◎每次放孩子一個人看卡通,就覺得自己是個失職的母親……
→父母總是很忙碌,做家事、煮飯、處理雜事,很難專心陪孩子玩。無法馬上回應孩子的撒嬌、陪伴時,只要好好傳達當下的狀況與心情,就可以讓他感到安心。
本書特色
► 專業解惑,育兒路上不茫然
兒童心理醫師親自出馬,針對養育嬰幼兒容易產生的疑惑,提出讓父母舒心的解答,教你順利教好0~3歲小小孩。
► 分齡解讀寶寶各階段的心靈發展狀態
圖解實際育兒情境的正確與NG觀念,讀懂孩子情緒,就能輕鬆解決教養大小事。
► 收錄讀者共鳴心聲,負能量一掃而空
運用生動可愛的輕鬆情境漫畫、貼切有趣的情節,讓家有嬰幼兒的父母產生共鳴,看著看著就會爆笑與流淚,負能量也一掃而空。
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給孩子的廚房實驗室
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好好說慢慢懂,不吼不罵力量大!陪伴高敏感孩子的親子情緒教養課
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一本你希望父母讀過的書(孩子也會慶幸你讀過)
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0~2歲的寶寶遊戲圖鑑:玩出好情緒、集中力!
0~2歲可說是寶寶的黃金成長期,這時他們開始學會翻身、爬行、走路、說話,同時也是培養認知能力的重要階段。如果能透過和父母互動、一起遊戲,就可以讓寶寶的身心獲得平衡發展,訓練出好腦力、好情緒與專注力。
「陪孩子玩」其實是一門看似簡單、實則深奧的學問,不過爸爸媽媽們也不用太過緊張,不需要購買大量的益智玩具,只要在日常生活中加入一點「玩心」,就可以讓寶寶和爸媽都玩得很開心。
本書以圖解方式介紹0~2歲寶寶的成長階段,包括各個時期的成長重點、身心方面要注意的地方,以及可以和寶寶進行的遊戲,同時還會列出每個遊戲的重點、能夠訓練寶寶的哪些能力,相信可以為新手爸媽的育兒之路帶來許多幫助。
本書特色
★0~2歲分階段介紹,寶寶發育重點一目了然
附0、1、2歲的發展能力參考表,讓爸媽清楚知道寶寶各階段的身心成長狀況,絕不錯過孩子發展的關鍵時期。
★搭配大量插畫並標出各遊戲重點,讓爸媽也能成為遊戲達人
書中介紹的遊戲,大多運用手腳和家中現有的東西就能進行,不一定要買玩具或花費心思想要怎麼跟寶寶玩,轉瓶蓋、撕報紙等簡單的遊戲,也能訓練寶寶手眼協調的動作。
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羅寶鴻的安定教養學:蒙特梭利、薩提爾、阿德勒,看懂孩子內在需求,培養正向、自信、穩定好性格
蒙特梭利專家、暢銷書《蒙特梭利專家親授!教孩子學規矩一點也不難》作者羅寶鴻全新著作
首度結合「蒙特梭利」、「正向教養」與「薩提爾的內在對話」三大派別集大成之書
◎隨書附贈「愛孩子的安定教養學」精美拉頁,幫爸媽劃重點
◎論述+真實教養案例+解說,一次讀懂蒙特梭利、阿德勒與薩提爾
寶鴻老師的安定教養金三角
用愛蒙特梭利,正向陪伴,以同理與覺察安定孩子與自己的內在。
從理論到方法,從孩子內在發展、有效溝通到情緒自由, 寶鴻老師教你如何教養孩子不NG,親子關係大提升!
寶鴻老師身為蒙特梭利專家、同時也是一個小男孩的爸爸,除了堅實的理論基礎外,透過粉專經營,累積大量與爸爸媽媽線上討論教養疑問的經驗,同時也在日常教學中,閱「孩」無數,是爸媽在教養路上,最信賴又溫暖的好夥伴。
不論你的孩子是學齡前或是小學生,各種教養困擾,都能在這本書找到解方。
0-6歲的孩子:最需要蒙特梭利
從蒙特梭利核心理論出發,順應兒童內在發展需求,教你看懂孩子行為背後的意義,不再以成人角度誤解孩子的需要,適時適當提供孩子愛的養分。
7-10歲的孩子:阿德勒正向教養是正解
以正向的態度與孩子溝通,建立生活常規,溫和而堅定的回應孩子
練習各種教養實戰「工具」,養成孩子正向人格。
爸爸媽媽自己與所有孩子:薩提爾是爸媽的好朋友
陪伴孩子覺察並適當表達自己的感受,釋放情緒,也陪伴身為爸媽的自己探尋內在小孩,以安穩的心靈接納孩子。
Dimensions 14.8 x 21 x 1.84 cm | 5.8" x 8.3" x 0.7"
368 pages
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你的2歲孩子-又好氣又惹人愛憐的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
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教養的真相:圖解孩子講不聽、叫不動,大人該懂的破冰對話(王宏哲全圖解教養的真相+神奇魔杖互動學習書)
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你的3歲孩子-亦敵亦友的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
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先同理再講理,讀懂青春期,孩子不叛逆:日本權威心理醫師的肯定觀察法,察覺逆反訊號,陪伴孩子度過情緒波動期,打造有愛有溫度的親子關係
\日本專業兒醫明橋大二的「叛時代教養」新作/
★深入剖析青春期孩子的逆反心理★
易怒、省話、晚回家、離家出走、裝病拒學、經常受傷……
孩子透露的SOS訊號,你讀懂了嗎?
傾聽陪伴X心態改變X 信任原則
用包容與同理撫平青春期孩子的情緒波動,
打造有愛、有溫度的親子關係。
父母與青春期孩子的溝通練習──沈雅琪老師、謝玉蓮心理師【專文推薦】
感動480萬名父母心《0~3歲給對愛就不怕寵壞》、《3~6歲做對管教,不打不罵孩子更聽話》作者明橋大二暖心續作!
★走進孩子內心,肯定帶刺的青春期
呱呱墜地的小天使落入人間,大哭大笑是他們最直接的表現方式;慢慢成長後,開始會耍任性,有豐富的情緒表達方式。青春期是成為大人的一個過渡階段,約從國小三、四年級(10歲)開始一直到20歲左右,此階段逐漸成熟的思想,急速成長的身心變化,讓孩子們一方面脫離孩童模樣,同時也讓孩子充滿不安與疑惑,成長的焦慮讓孩子開始頂嘴、拒學、離家……,許多父母也視孩子叛逆難教,親子之間不斷衝突卻毫無實際溝通,以致親子關係逐漸惡化,父母天天沉浸在心碎崩潰的邊緣。
「你以為你是誰!煩死了別來吵我!」
「我才不是你的寶貝、你也不是我的寶貝!」
「反正跟你們說也沒用,我自己解決最快!」
曾幾何時,我的孩子變成長滿尖刺的仙人掌孩子?很矛盾,孩子時而對我撒嬌,時而對我發脾氣;很崩潰,搞不懂孩子究竟在想些什麼?青春期孩子出現暴怒、拒學、受傷、向父母要錢、晚回家、離家出走……那個每天都要跟爸媽擁抱的孩子,到哪裡去了呢?
本書作者明橋大二在學校輔導室及醫院診間諮商多年,他發現開始進入青春期的孩子,心情總是反覆動盪,一下覺得自己已經長大,想要裝作成熟世故,但是一下子又想回到童年,在父母身邊當個撒嬌的寶貝,其實青春期孩子的內心隱藏著許多訊息,等著父母們察覺:
「個性火爆」的孩子,是因為有太多鬱悶的情感;
「只想在家」的孩子,是因為如果不這樣做,傷人的現實就會接踵而來;
「習慣說謊」的孩子,是因為說出實情的話,反而要受到更糟糕的對待;
「沒有幹勁」的孩子,是因為滿懷幹勁地表達意見,也只會遭人否定。
★孩子的反抗,是為了期待被他人肯定與理解
孩子在成長過程中,會歷經學測、升學、社交等種種壓力,這些壓力來源是因為害怕父母用成績替他們打分數;大部分父母總是忍不住想以一己之力去改變孩子,會想著:「要是你可以再這樣一點的話……」、「為什麼你老是不這樣做呢……」父母想要改變孩子的心態,其實反而是在跟孩子說:「現在的你是不行的!」不知不覺間,向孩子傳遞出了否定的訊息,而孩子開始用負面態度回應,殊不知孩子的種種反抗,都是為了「期待能被他人肯定與理解」。
青春期的孩子內心敏感又脆弱,更容易因為他人的言語或霸凌,而自我評價低落,甚至萌生自殘、輕生的念頭,因此對青春期的關懷與教養更需謹慎。
作者在本書提出了深刻的提醒,面對惜字如金的青春期孩子,希望父母們能「先同理再講理」,而不是依照自己的想法窮追不捨、強迫開口。「同理心」才是最好的親子特效藥,對孩子賦予足夠的信任,孩子的內心就能得到支持與安慰,從中得到安定與獨立的力量。
★肯定,讓孩子更有安全感
孩子在青春期階段,無論是荷爾蒙作祟,或是在成熟與幼稚之間來回徘徊,他們經常會做出許多需要父母費心的行為。這時候,請別跟孩子抱怨:「為什麼你連這點小事都做不好?我們做爸媽的為了你都這麼忍耐了……」這樣的話語只會讓孩子覺得自己毫無價值,造成親子衝突不斷,其實孩子只是還不知道如何表達。作者建議父母先好好了解孩子在學校發生的事情,於是提出了與青春期孩子相處的十大守則:
1、放下想要「用大人的力量改變孩子」的想法。
2、放下對於孩子「 為什麼都不做某些事」的不滿。
3、肯定孩子現在所擁有的優點, 以及他盡己所能的努力。
4、不要再給孩子下達指示、命令或是任意干涉。
5、孩子向你說話的時候, 無論再忙碌都要仔細聆聽。
6、遵守和孩子的約定。
7、如果真的對孩子做了不對的事, 要直率地向孩子道歉。
8、放下想要以恐嚇、辱罵、體罰等方式讓孩子動起來的想法。
9、如果是非常擔心的事情, 要和孩子面對面好好談,確實地加以提醒。
10、多跟孩子說「 謝謝」、「謝謝你願意告訴我」在日常互動中提高孩子的自我評價。
★青少年時期最擔心霸凌問題,父母一定要察覺這些變化!
察覺孩子向父母傳遞求援的蛛絲馬跡相當重要,孩子邁入國高中時,成了省話一哥、一姐,在不願與父母溝通的情況下,嚴重低落的自我評價會引發孩子的脫序行為,本書也探討了現今社會關注的校園霸凌現象,作為探討孩子內心的主要議題,父母需要有所警惕,在名為霸凌的背後,可能牽扯到哪些與孩子互動上的隱性不良問題,當您發現孩子有以下變化,很可能是遭到霸凌的訊號:
‧孩子的身體、服裝出現變化──衣服莫名破損、弄髒、身上有明顯外傷
‧孩子的所有物出現變化──文具或小東西壞掉或不見,書本有被撕毀的痕跡
‧孩子的言行出現變化──不再提起學校的事,突然想說退出社團或轉學
‧孩子的感情出現變化──成績退步、老是發呆,容易生氣或哭泣
‧孩子表達出控訴──說出「有人找我麻煩」、「我的東西不見了」等話語
‧孩子發出的其他訊號──收到騷擾信、無聲電話或惡作劇電話,且相當頻繁
‧可能引發輕生念頭的危險信號──孩子突然說「好想要輕鬆一點」,且毫不惋惜地將寶貝的物品分送給別人,暑假或寒假結束前是最危險的時機。
作者諮商時發現,青春期孩子遭遇霸凌時,之所以對父母說不出口的理由,最常聽到的是「不想傷了父母的心」、「不想讓父母擔心」的這種心情。即便自己正飽受折磨,卻還是顧慮到父母的這種溫柔,令人擔憂也為之心痛。每個孩子的個性都不同,面對霸凌的表現也不同,因此身為父母要隨時觀察並關懷,孩子有任何不尋常的表現時,都要審慎瞭解是否遭遇霸凌。
★溫柔說、學放手,孩子的青春不消極
父母們面對孩子的青春期時會感到無所適從,因為青春期是孩子要「轉大人」的過程,許多孩子會有所謂的獨立思考,不願聽從父母的話、對父母表達控訴,卻又會對父母抱持著依賴性。孩子反抗的背後,其實代表著缺乏安全感,他們嚮往著「爸媽能多陪在自己身邊」、「能多聽聽我說的話」,孩子會觀察父母的生活方式與處世態度,並透過模仿學習,一點一滴潛移默化,才逐漸形塑出孩子的個性與品格,而父母面對孩子的訴求,耐心傾聽、同理回應才能達到良好的溝通。
現在開始,化身心靈偵探,聽聽孩子們怎麼說?他們的行為又透露著哪些訊息?透過接納和陪伴,讓我們在正確的溝通下,讀懂青春期孩子不願敞開的內心。
【孩子我想好好懂你,給父母的教養心靈雞湯】
♥不要讓筋疲力竭的孩子更加筋疲力竭,不要讓傷痕累累的孩子更加傷痕累累。
♥一個令孩子感覺不舒服的家,往往是家人之間的關係不那麼融洽,令人神經緊繃、感到窒息的家。
♥「拒學」代表孩子「心靈的溫控裝置」正在運轉
♥教養很重要,學習也很重要,然而最重要的,還是培育孩子的「自我評價」。
♥接受孩子真正的狀態,反而能看見孩子的優點
♥沒辦法撒嬌的人並不是獨立,能夠撒嬌的人才能夠獨立。
♥孩子在行為偏差或是犯罪跟前的最後一道防線,並不是規矩或是管教,而是受到爸媽無微不至的照顧,從中而生「不能背叛爸媽」的那份感恩之心。
► 情境圖解說明,秒懂孩子的不安與徬徨
透過貼近現實生活的情境插畫,深入剖析孩子的內心世界,洞察青少年反抗的原因,專業詳述孩子不願說出口的苦楚。
► 心理醫師專業經驗,破解孩子的逆反心理
針對青春期的惱人問題,提供相關共鳴經驗與正確觀念,坦然面對孩子的真實樣貌,學習放手並信任孩子所做的一切,父母不再因青春期的叛逆傷透腦筋。
► 時下霸凌議題分析,圖解孩子的內心角落
有鑑於霸凌事件頻傳,許多孩子因為霸凌而影響生活與求學,作者提出七大要素,讓父母透過觀察與傾聽來理解孩子,提出正確的支持與回應機制。
Publisher: 和平國際
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All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
正向聚焦:有效肯定的三十種變化,點燃孩子的內在動力
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
你的7歲孩子-保守退怯的二年級
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
你的1歲孩子
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
爸媽不瞎忙:凱若的幸福家庭行事曆
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
你的5歲孩子,開朗而愉悅的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
會開瓦斯就會煮 (1)
打開書開瓦斯,跟著象廚一起煮,料理步驟超清楚,重要提點超貼心,刀工、切法、選料全部學起來,料理不失敗的絕佳工具書。有了《會開瓦斯就會煮》在家你就是大廚,每道都是自信之作,上桌立刻被掃盤,食客開心滿足直說讚!
本書特色
●道道接地氣,步驟超圖解、解說無敵簡單易懂,從此任何人都能「會開瓦斯就會煮」。
●常用肉類大解析,各種肉類不再傻傻分不清。
●進入料理前一定要知道的10個細節,不藏私與煮婦、煮夫們大方分享。
●各式刀工及切法教學,輕鬆掌握食材特性,縮短料理時間。
●象廚料理的美味關鍵,調味料分類開箱大解析。
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
My 15-month old LOVES this book. This is his go to during snack time! We are considering buying him additional books from this collection for Xmas!
I have order books for my daughter who is learning Chinese and she uses them every day! I can also learn as adult with her :)
My toddler, 1 year old, loves this and loves opening all the flaps.
these books make my kid to think and to ask questions. it's very educational
My 15-month old LOVES this book. This is his go to during snack time! We are considering buying him additional books from this collection for Xmas!
I have order books for my daughter who is learning Chinese and she uses them every day! I can also learn as adult with her :)
My toddler, 1 year old, loves this and loves opening all the flaps.
these books make my kid to think and to ask questions. it's very educational