在家玩蒙特梭利:掌握0~6歲九大敏感期,48個感覺統合遊戲,全方位激發孩子潛能(二版)
暴力語言、固執愛哭鬧、自我中心……
當孩子出現以下行為,請注意!
這表示:孩子的敏感期=學習爆發期到了!
.2歲半後,孩子常說:「我打你」「我踢死妳」等暴力語言!
家長OS:孩子居然想打我?我的孩子是不是有暴力傾向?
蒙特梭利:孩子經過模仿階段→發現語言會引起大人注意→實驗語言的力量!
.3歲時,不順孩子意就哭鬧!一定要「先穿衣,再穿襪子、褲子,最後才梳頭」
家長OS:孩子是不是太固執了!不行,我一定要讓他知道「彈性」「配合」的重要性!
蒙特梭利:孩子的秩序規律代表安全感,一旦打破會不安、恐懼→哭鬧→重來→才有安全感。
.2歲多,孩子常說「這是我的!誰都不能碰」「媽媽買給我的,你不能吃!」
家長OS:孩子會不會太自私了!我應該也要讓他懂得「分享」!
蒙特梭利:這是孩子社會化的敏感期到了→認知「我」→才能學會獨立→勉強孩子分享→反而會引起強烈的不安全→哭鬧循環……
關於敏感期——
▋0~6歲,是孩子各種學習力敏感期爆發最密集的階段。
▋九大敏感期:語言(0~6歲)、動作(0~3歲)、書寫(3.5~4.5歲)、閱讀(4.5~5.5歲)、秩序(2~4歲)、感官(0~6歲)、文化(6~9歲)、社會化(2.5~6歲)、對細微事物感興趣(1.5~4歲)。
▋順利通過一個敏感期,孩子的心智水準便從一個層面上升到另一個層面。
▋各個敏感期之間的發展快慢息息相關,例如:嬰兒手的敏感期會幫助口腔敏感期的發展;當孩子在動作敏感期裡的手腕、小肌肉能力打底打得好,書寫的敏感期就會提前……
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0~3歲給對愛就不怕寵壞:兒童權威心理醫師的心靈育兒法,化情緒難處為正面力量,陪伴孩子安心探索成長之路
兒童心理醫師專業解惑,讓父母放下質疑對錯的重擔
在0~3歲最關鍵成長的這三年,
打造讓孩子勇敢向前的保護傘,
育兒從此不疲憊、不心累!
★從小天使到小惡魔,充滿挫折的教養路
從第一次伸手捧著自己的孩子開始,看著懷裡小小的、軟綿綿、紅撲撲臉蛋的小傢伙,身為父母的我們經常想著:「啊~希望寶貝平安長大,健康幸福就好。」但是隨著日子一天天過去,教養路上的挫折卻經常磨損了我們這樣簡單的信念。
本書作者經過無數次的個案諮詢與研究後,深刻體會家有幼齡孩童父母的慌張與焦慮,和聽不懂言語的小半獸人互動中產生各種失措與焦躁,加上旁人過多的指點,讓育兒路上更無所適從。
因此作者以兒童心理的專業角度,提出了「給對愛就不怕寵壞」的安心育兒之道,指引父母如何以正確態度面對彼此的「第一次」,如何給對孩子適切回應,察覺孩子的真實需求,找回寬心教養的力量。如果您是以下的家長,那麼你一定要看這本書:
◎剛走在育兒路上,每天看著懷裡的小寶貝卻手足無措的新手父母
◎已有老大經驗,但仍然覺得育兒之路好挫折的雙寶、三寶爸媽
◎育兒之路已經走得老神在在,想繼續探索安心教養之道的爸媽
◎希望能為寶寶每個成長的「關鍵第一次」留下回憶的父母
★能感受父母之愛的孩子最幸福
0~3歲的孩子講不聽、也說不動,從小天使變成了小惡魔,每天都在測試爸媽的耐心底線。面對哭鬧不休的小小孩,我們經常斷了理智線、煩躁不已,但是在吼罵過後,又開始懊悔自己的兇悍,又沮喪於自己的教養是否失敗的疑慮,甚至開始懷疑自己是否能養育出幸福的孩子。以下這些困境,身為父母的你是否覺得很熟悉:
◎寶寶哭個不停,餵了奶、換了尿布還是哭不停
◎孩子愛生氣,一哭就是一個小時
◎孩子只要不開心,就會打父母、丟玩具
◎家中兩個孩子總是吵架搶玩具,學不會分享
◎孩子愛搗蛋,常常在幼稚園捉弄同學
0~3歲時期,是我們能為孩子打造「自我肯定感」的心靈基礎年齡,所謂的自我肯定,簡單來說就是讓孩子抱持著「自己是很重要的」、「活得有價值」、「被需要」的心情。這不需要額外多做些什麼,就像被媽媽抱在懷裡的感覺,就算偶爾鬧個小脾氣,也能繼續一起大笑,透過生活中的點點滴滴,一起享受共處的時光,就能培養出肯定自我的價值。而書中作者還提出更多新世代的教養觀念:
1、落實「境教」,給孩子安心的環境
「境教」就是讓孩子在充分安心的環境下長大。有了安心的環境,就能養成健康的心態,才能培育出終其一生幸福的正向性格。
2、嬰兒的「語言養成」,跟孩子說越多他越安心
父母平時就要和孩子多說話,尤其換尿布、大哭時,將孩子的負面情緒轉述出來,「不舒服嗎?」、「寂寞了嗎?」,更能安撫寶寶的情緒。
3、撒嬌不是錯,適當依賴更會獨立
其實,孩子只要在情緒得到滿足,反而比較會說「我要自己做!」。不讓孩子撒嬌,就是對他撒手不管,這不是「獨立」,而是「孤立」。
★「寵愛,但不寵壞」,親子溝通這樣說
●孩子總吵著要買玩具,賴在賣場不走
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.同理孩子的心情「你喜歡這個對吧。但是說了不行,你很難過吧。」
2.哄哄他並抱緊他。如果沒有效果,就說明理由「但是,我們現在要……。」
3.即使這樣孩子還是不聽話,還是又哭又鬧,不行的事情還是要說不行。
反覆幾次後,孩子就會以自己的方式,學會這個家的規矩,也會慢慢聽你的話。
●孩子不收玩具,常常把玩具倒得到處都是
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.「你還想要一直一直玩對不對!」
2.「但是媽媽叫你把玩具收起來,你很難過對不對?」
3.「那媽媽傳送能收東西的能量給你喔!」
●睡前孩子要看卡通,說不行就大哭
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1. 「小花最喜歡佩佩豬了吧!」
2. 「但是媽媽卻說已經晚上了不能看!很難過吧。」
3. 「我們手牽手一起睡覺吧。已經沒事了喔!」
★媽媽們的育兒兩難,如何將愧疚轉換為愛的力量?
作者在諮商時也曾遇到這樣苦惱的媽媽:「原本因為愛孩子而離開職場,沒想到專心帶孩子之後卻發現每次面對孩子哭鬧,就會煩躁生氣,然後又對那樣的自己失望。」
其實每個孩子天生的氣質、性格各有不同,無須太過自責,當你對孩子發火發過頭時,就想著「現在的他這樣就很好了」,試著放鬆一下,現在做不到的,以後或許就能做到,這樣想就夠了。
研究顯示,「自我肯定感低」的父母,較容易在育兒路上產生自我質疑與焦慮情緒,間接影響到孩子的心靈。書中針對自我肯定感低的父母,提出如何正向自我鼓勵的建議,在養育孩子的過程中,愛的力量讓孩子幸福,我們也因此願意變得更強大。父母們是否也曾出現這些情緒難處:
◎身為職場媽媽,卻好想請育嬰假,每天都想陪著孩子……
→並不是一定要媽媽二十四小時陪伴,才能養出幸福的寶寶。研究顯示,托育的時間長短,並不會影響寶寶的發展,而是鮮少與家人好好吃一頓飯,才會左右孩子的發展。
◎沒想到請育嬰假之後,反而覺得天天面對孩子更容易煩躁……
→請先暫時放下重擔吧!即使會支出一些費用,還是把孩子送托兒所,反而會減輕一些壓力,也會對孩子更溫柔。父母自己要先開心,才能打造出一個開心養育孩子的環境。
◎每次放孩子一個人看卡通,就覺得自己是個失職的母親……
→父母總是很忙碌,做家事、煮飯、處理雜事,很難專心陪孩子玩。無法馬上回應孩子的撒嬌、陪伴時,只要好好傳達當下的狀況與心情,就可以讓他感到安心。
本書特色
► 專業解惑,育兒路上不茫然
兒童心理醫師親自出馬,針對養育嬰幼兒容易產生的疑惑,提出讓父母舒心的解答,教你順利教好0~3歲小小孩。
► 分齡解讀寶寶各階段的心靈發展狀態
圖解實際育兒情境的正確與NG觀念,讀懂孩子情緒,就能輕鬆解決教養大小事。
► 收錄讀者共鳴心聲,負能量一掃而空
運用生動可愛的輕鬆情境漫畫、貼切有趣的情節,讓家有嬰幼兒的父母產生共鳴,看著看著就會爆笑與流淚,負能量也一掃而空。
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(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
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給孩子的廚房實驗室
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(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
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好好說慢慢懂,不吼不罵力量大!陪伴高敏感孩子的親子情緒教養課
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蒙特梭利教養進行式:翩翩園長的45個正向教養解方
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一本你希望父母讀過的書(孩子也會慶幸你讀過)
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0~2歲的寶寶遊戲圖鑑:玩出好情緒、集中力!
0~2歲可說是寶寶的黃金成長期,這時他們開始學會翻身、爬行、走路、說話,同時也是培養認知能力的重要階段。如果能透過和父母互動、一起遊戲,就可以讓寶寶的身心獲得平衡發展,訓練出好腦力、好情緒與專注力。
「陪孩子玩」其實是一門看似簡單、實則深奧的學問,不過爸爸媽媽們也不用太過緊張,不需要購買大量的益智玩具,只要在日常生活中加入一點「玩心」,就可以讓寶寶和爸媽都玩得很開心。
本書以圖解方式介紹0~2歲寶寶的成長階段,包括各個時期的成長重點、身心方面要注意的地方,以及可以和寶寶進行的遊戲,同時還會列出每個遊戲的重點、能夠訓練寶寶的哪些能力,相信可以為新手爸媽的育兒之路帶來許多幫助。
本書特色
★0~2歲分階段介紹,寶寶發育重點一目了然
附0、1、2歲的發展能力參考表,讓爸媽清楚知道寶寶各階段的身心成長狀況,絕不錯過孩子發展的關鍵時期。
★搭配大量插畫並標出各遊戲重點,讓爸媽也能成為遊戲達人
書中介紹的遊戲,大多運用手腳和家中現有的東西就能進行,不一定要買玩具或花費心思想要怎麼跟寶寶玩,轉瓶蓋、撕報紙等簡單的遊戲,也能訓練寶寶手眼協調的動作。
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你的2歲孩子-又好氣又惹人愛憐的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
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(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
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藝術也可以這樣玩:赫威‧托雷的11個創意活動提案
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(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
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教養的真相:圖解孩子講不聽、叫不動,大人該懂的破冰對話(王宏哲全圖解教養的真相+神奇魔杖互動學習書)
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跟阿德勒學正向教養:解決日常教養問題1001種方法 溫和堅定27種態度╳92個教養現場難題,簡單實用,育兒更輕鬆!
全球銷售逾600萬冊「正向教養」系列,推出首部經典教養百科,實際操作的快速入手版!集合各年齡層、各種教養現場難題的育兒聖經,提點「正向教養」菁華,涵蓋引導和鼓勵孩子的實做心法與技法,獻給全天下為了教養問題傷透腦筋的父母,幫助你知道也能做得到!
在教養的路上,父母們時時刻刻會面臨各種挑戰,內心也充滿感慨,因為無論你多麼疼愛孩子,必定都有遭逢憤怒、挫折,甚至絕望的時刻。風靡全球的「正向教養」系列,秉持其核心概念,推出深入淺出、實用易讀、方便查找的教養百科,含括正向教養所需具備的27種態度及92種日常大小事件,詳細解說正向教養的概念與實際執行方法,深度分析問題行為背後的成因,一一提出因應之道,並列舉各種教養方式對孩子帶來的後續影響。全書架構簡單易懂,是「正向教養」系列最實用的快速上手入門之作,適用於任何年齡階段的孩子,探討所有你能想到的教養問題,為你提供深入分析及解答。
★正向教養百科,解決各種教養現場難題
.當孩子在超市裡發脾氣、耍賴,父母該怎麼辦?
.孩子們不吃晚餐、晚上不睡覺、早上拒絕起床時,父母們又該怎麼做?
.當祖父母溺愛孫輩時,父母該如何拿捏自己的教養風格?
.孩子幫忙做家事的時候,父母該給零用錢嗎?
.該幫孩子請保姆嗎?適當的分離是必要的嗎?
.孩子總是愛頂嘴,父母們如何以身作則?
.幫孩子洗澡宛如惡夢,叫他們洗澡總是一拖再拖,進了澡盆又不想出來。如何是好?
.孩子要求擁有一支手機,父母該答應嗎?
.該如何安排與孩子共同出遊的旅行假期?
★針對問題,抽絲剝繭,清楚明瞭,深入解析!
本書針對父母們最棘手的教養難題、最深層的育兒焦慮,一一提出精闢的解答。
第一部從教養態度、父母作為、親子溝通、家庭力量、規矩原則、理解與包容、尊重孩子的決定、情感的傳遞⋯⋯等,提點出正向教養的27種核心精神。
第二部是全書重心,整理所有父母在教養現場中面臨的難題,採「問」「答」方式,將問題以簡單明白的方式條列,讓讀者能迅速對應問題並找出解方。書中並將問題按照年齡及各種情況分類,可按學齡前、學齡期、青少年期不同階段尋找各種因應方案,甚至含括收養、單親家庭、繼親家庭等親子關係,以及外出旅行、搬家、寵物等生活中各種狀況的探討。當你翻閱到針對特定教養問題的章節時,不僅能找到「現在該怎麼做」的具體建議,還包括「預防未來發生問題」的提點解析。每篇主題都有「教養指南」單元,可廣泛運用來解決其他衍生的問題,並幫助你了解孩子在回應父母的過程中所學到的事物。
父母在生活裡遇到的教養問題五花八門,可隨時針對問題翻閱本書找出解方,快速學到正向教養的菁華,養出自信、獨立、有責任感且與他人相互尊重的孩子。
本書特色
★「正向教養」系列叢書共出版22冊,以16種語言發行60國,全球銷售逾600萬冊。
★作者簡.尼爾森為阿德勒學派教養權威、美國風行40年的「正向教養」創始人。
★將「正向教養」的概念整理出核心應用工具,以深入淺出的方式讓讀者更能理解並應用。
★「正向教養」修訂版本與時俱進,納入電子產品等當代教養問題對策。
★台灣首位獲美國PDA正向教養協會認證導師及講師──姚以婷專文導讀、審訂。
Specifications 規格
Recommended Age: Parents
Dimensions: 16.7 x 23 x 2.72 cm | 6.6" x 9" x 1"
Contents: 544 pages
Publisher: 大好書屋
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你的3歲孩子-亦敵亦友的年齡
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先同理再講理,讀懂青春期,孩子不叛逆:日本權威心理醫師的肯定觀察法,察覺逆反訊號,陪伴孩子度過情緒波動期,打造有愛有溫度的親子關係
\日本專業兒醫明橋大二的「叛時代教養」新作/
★深入剖析青春期孩子的逆反心理★
易怒、省話、晚回家、離家出走、裝病拒學、經常受傷……
孩子透露的SOS訊號,你讀懂了嗎?
傾聽陪伴X心態改變X 信任原則
用包容與同理撫平青春期孩子的情緒波動,
打造有愛、有溫度的親子關係。
父母與青春期孩子的溝通練習──沈雅琪老師、謝玉蓮心理師【專文推薦】
感動480萬名父母心《0~3歲給對愛就不怕寵壞》、《3~6歲做對管教,不打不罵孩子更聽話》作者明橋大二暖心續作!
★走進孩子內心,肯定帶刺的青春期
呱呱墜地的小天使落入人間,大哭大笑是他們最直接的表現方式;慢慢成長後,開始會耍任性,有豐富的情緒表達方式。青春期是成為大人的一個過渡階段,約從國小三、四年級(10歲)開始一直到20歲左右,此階段逐漸成熟的思想,急速成長的身心變化,讓孩子們一方面脫離孩童模樣,同時也讓孩子充滿不安與疑惑,成長的焦慮讓孩子開始頂嘴、拒學、離家……,許多父母也視孩子叛逆難教,親子之間不斷衝突卻毫無實際溝通,以致親子關係逐漸惡化,父母天天沉浸在心碎崩潰的邊緣。
「你以為你是誰!煩死了別來吵我!」
「我才不是你的寶貝、你也不是我的寶貝!」
「反正跟你們說也沒用,我自己解決最快!」
曾幾何時,我的孩子變成長滿尖刺的仙人掌孩子?很矛盾,孩子時而對我撒嬌,時而對我發脾氣;很崩潰,搞不懂孩子究竟在想些什麼?青春期孩子出現暴怒、拒學、受傷、向父母要錢、晚回家、離家出走……那個每天都要跟爸媽擁抱的孩子,到哪裡去了呢?
本書作者明橋大二在學校輔導室及醫院診間諮商多年,他發現開始進入青春期的孩子,心情總是反覆動盪,一下覺得自己已經長大,想要裝作成熟世故,但是一下子又想回到童年,在父母身邊當個撒嬌的寶貝,其實青春期孩子的內心隱藏著許多訊息,等著父母們察覺:
「個性火爆」的孩子,是因為有太多鬱悶的情感;
「只想在家」的孩子,是因為如果不這樣做,傷人的現實就會接踵而來;
「習慣說謊」的孩子,是因為說出實情的話,反而要受到更糟糕的對待;
「沒有幹勁」的孩子,是因為滿懷幹勁地表達意見,也只會遭人否定。
★孩子的反抗,是為了期待被他人肯定與理解
孩子在成長過程中,會歷經學測、升學、社交等種種壓力,這些壓力來源是因為害怕父母用成績替他們打分數;大部分父母總是忍不住想以一己之力去改變孩子,會想著:「要是你可以再這樣一點的話……」、「為什麼你老是不這樣做呢……」父母想要改變孩子的心態,其實反而是在跟孩子說:「現在的你是不行的!」不知不覺間,向孩子傳遞出了否定的訊息,而孩子開始用負面態度回應,殊不知孩子的種種反抗,都是為了「期待能被他人肯定與理解」。
青春期的孩子內心敏感又脆弱,更容易因為他人的言語或霸凌,而自我評價低落,甚至萌生自殘、輕生的念頭,因此對青春期的關懷與教養更需謹慎。
作者在本書提出了深刻的提醒,面對惜字如金的青春期孩子,希望父母們能「先同理再講理」,而不是依照自己的想法窮追不捨、強迫開口。「同理心」才是最好的親子特效藥,對孩子賦予足夠的信任,孩子的內心就能得到支持與安慰,從中得到安定與獨立的力量。
★肯定,讓孩子更有安全感
孩子在青春期階段,無論是荷爾蒙作祟,或是在成熟與幼稚之間來回徘徊,他們經常會做出許多需要父母費心的行為。這時候,請別跟孩子抱怨:「為什麼你連這點小事都做不好?我們做爸媽的為了你都這麼忍耐了……」這樣的話語只會讓孩子覺得自己毫無價值,造成親子衝突不斷,其實孩子只是還不知道如何表達。作者建議父母先好好了解孩子在學校發生的事情,於是提出了與青春期孩子相處的十大守則:
1、放下想要「用大人的力量改變孩子」的想法。
2、放下對於孩子「 為什麼都不做某些事」的不滿。
3、肯定孩子現在所擁有的優點, 以及他盡己所能的努力。
4、不要再給孩子下達指示、命令或是任意干涉。
5、孩子向你說話的時候, 無論再忙碌都要仔細聆聽。
6、遵守和孩子的約定。
7、如果真的對孩子做了不對的事, 要直率地向孩子道歉。
8、放下想要以恐嚇、辱罵、體罰等方式讓孩子動起來的想法。
9、如果是非常擔心的事情, 要和孩子面對面好好談,確實地加以提醒。
10、多跟孩子說「 謝謝」、「謝謝你願意告訴我」在日常互動中提高孩子的自我評價。
★青少年時期最擔心霸凌問題,父母一定要察覺這些變化!
察覺孩子向父母傳遞求援的蛛絲馬跡相當重要,孩子邁入國高中時,成了省話一哥、一姐,在不願與父母溝通的情況下,嚴重低落的自我評價會引發孩子的脫序行為,本書也探討了現今社會關注的校園霸凌現象,作為探討孩子內心的主要議題,父母需要有所警惕,在名為霸凌的背後,可能牽扯到哪些與孩子互動上的隱性不良問題,當您發現孩子有以下變化,很可能是遭到霸凌的訊號:
‧孩子的身體、服裝出現變化──衣服莫名破損、弄髒、身上有明顯外傷
‧孩子的所有物出現變化──文具或小東西壞掉或不見,書本有被撕毀的痕跡
‧孩子的言行出現變化──不再提起學校的事,突然想說退出社團或轉學
‧孩子的感情出現變化──成績退步、老是發呆,容易生氣或哭泣
‧孩子表達出控訴──說出「有人找我麻煩」、「我的東西不見了」等話語
‧孩子發出的其他訊號──收到騷擾信、無聲電話或惡作劇電話,且相當頻繁
‧可能引發輕生念頭的危險信號──孩子突然說「好想要輕鬆一點」,且毫不惋惜地將寶貝的物品分送給別人,暑假或寒假結束前是最危險的時機。
作者諮商時發現,青春期孩子遭遇霸凌時,之所以對父母說不出口的理由,最常聽到的是「不想傷了父母的心」、「不想讓父母擔心」的這種心情。即便自己正飽受折磨,卻還是顧慮到父母的這種溫柔,令人擔憂也為之心痛。每個孩子的個性都不同,面對霸凌的表現也不同,因此身為父母要隨時觀察並關懷,孩子有任何不尋常的表現時,都要審慎瞭解是否遭遇霸凌。
★溫柔說、學放手,孩子的青春不消極
父母們面對孩子的青春期時會感到無所適從,因為青春期是孩子要「轉大人」的過程,許多孩子會有所謂的獨立思考,不願聽從父母的話、對父母表達控訴,卻又會對父母抱持著依賴性。孩子反抗的背後,其實代表著缺乏安全感,他們嚮往著「爸媽能多陪在自己身邊」、「能多聽聽我說的話」,孩子會觀察父母的生活方式與處世態度,並透過模仿學習,一點一滴潛移默化,才逐漸形塑出孩子的個性與品格,而父母面對孩子的訴求,耐心傾聽、同理回應才能達到良好的溝通。
現在開始,化身心靈偵探,聽聽孩子們怎麼說?他們的行為又透露著哪些訊息?透過接納和陪伴,讓我們在正確的溝通下,讀懂青春期孩子不願敞開的內心。
【孩子我想好好懂你,給父母的教養心靈雞湯】
♥不要讓筋疲力竭的孩子更加筋疲力竭,不要讓傷痕累累的孩子更加傷痕累累。
♥一個令孩子感覺不舒服的家,往往是家人之間的關係不那麼融洽,令人神經緊繃、感到窒息的家。
♥「拒學」代表孩子「心靈的溫控裝置」正在運轉
♥教養很重要,學習也很重要,然而最重要的,還是培育孩子的「自我評價」。
♥接受孩子真正的狀態,反而能看見孩子的優點
♥沒辦法撒嬌的人並不是獨立,能夠撒嬌的人才能夠獨立。
♥孩子在行為偏差或是犯罪跟前的最後一道防線,並不是規矩或是管教,而是受到爸媽無微不至的照顧,從中而生「不能背叛爸媽」的那份感恩之心。
► 情境圖解說明,秒懂孩子的不安與徬徨
透過貼近現實生活的情境插畫,深入剖析孩子的內心世界,洞察青少年反抗的原因,專業詳述孩子不願說出口的苦楚。
► 心理醫師專業經驗,破解孩子的逆反心理
針對青春期的惱人問題,提供相關共鳴經驗與正確觀念,坦然面對孩子的真實樣貌,學習放手並信任孩子所做的一切,父母不再因青春期的叛逆傷透腦筋。
► 時下霸凌議題分析,圖解孩子的內心角落
有鑑於霸凌事件頻傳,許多孩子因為霸凌而影響生活與求學,作者提出七大要素,讓父母透過觀察與傾聽來理解孩子,提出正確的支持與回應機制。
Publisher: 和平國際
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Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
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(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
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I use this on my kids bottle, pencil box, school supplies and they last very well.
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