3~6歲做對管教,不打不罵孩子更聽話:日本兒童心理醫師秒懂孩子的「有效溝通法」,改變管教口氣,孩子守紀律有自信!
★謝玉蓮臨床心理師【專文推薦】──從「自我」到「群體」,讓孩子安心去探險
★日本亞馬遜讀者好評推薦,百萬父母最有共鳴的教養經典!
成為父母後,最感挫折的時刻,應該就是當孩子開啟「無限循環任性+耍賴+滾地鬼打牆模式」──在公共場合亂跑亂叫、不守規矩、鬧脾氣、打人、沒大沒小、說謊等行為,被孩子氣到火冒三丈、惹到快爆炸的那些時刻吧?孩子甚至會說出「最討厭媽媽了、我不要跟你好了」等令人傷透心的話語。
雖然我們都不是完美的父母,但為了孩子的安全及未來著想,還是希望孩子能懂事聽話,在成長路上可以一天比一天更好、更成熟。過去權威高壓、大吼大叫的管教方式,對孩子起不了作用,反而會因為在無形中與孩子心靈疏離。
到底「管教」該如何拿捏收放,才能讓孩子發自內心的聽話、親子關係更柔軟呢?
本書作者明橋大二瞭解所有父母在教養問題上的焦慮及徬徨無措,因此以情境漫畫的方式,輕鬆圖解親子在教養上的困境,並強調以培養孩子自我肯定為基礎,針對3~6歲的孩子心靈狀態,剖析孩子的情緒反應其真實內在,為所有的教養疑問提供專業而又溫暖的應對回應。
不打不罵,才能傾聽孩子內心的聲音;
不打不罵,才能真正地化解親子衝突,脫離失控懊悔的教養循環。
■孩子感到「被重視」,是一切管教的源頭
作者在親子諮商過程發現,管教和守規矩的源頭是「重視對方的心」,但是不認為「自己受到重視」的孩子,如何能夠重視別人呢?大多數父母都是用負面的情緒化言言與孩子溝通:
「我沒辦法抱你,我要拿東西!」
「你不覺得你這樣很丟臉嗎?」
「你這個壞毛病不改,我也沒辦法……」
「這個也不要、那個也不要,啊~~~你到底要什麼!?」
「不要邊走邊吃,很醜!」
這些話對孩子來說,都是否定的詞彙,父母不斷重複負面話語,孩子也會漸漸認為「爸媽討厭我、我是沒用的人」,教導孩子規矩是重要的,但是在學會守規矩前,更重要的是培養孩子的「自我肯定感」。
■改變生活小舉動,培養孩子的自我肯定感
孩子不是機器人,並不會因為一兩次的教導馬上就改變,請給孩子多一點時間,也給自己多一點寬容,不要把孩子的所有表現都扛成自己的責任,只要有耐心地依照本書的指導,一定能看到成果,孩子也會朝著好的方向改變。
孩子的成長是漸進式的,每個孩子成長幅度也是快慢有別,所以父母們不需要焦急,只要給對愛,孩子會在正向的管教中健康長大。作者在書中也提出許多生活上小舉動,就能幫助孩子培養自我肯定感:
✓一句「謝謝」就能讓孩子很開心,讚美讓心靈更茁壯
→就算只是簡單的小事也跟孩子說:「謝謝」,就能讓孩子知道自己能幫上別人的忙、別人也需要自己的幫助。
✓常常說「我都知道喔!」跟孩子站在同一陣線,一起開心難過
→「共感」是培養孩子自我肯定感最有效的一種途徑,就算只是單純的理解孩子難過的心情,孩子的心就能得到療癒,擁有力量自己重新站起來
■「中間叛逆期」是為孩子獨立做準備的重要階段
3歲孩子的第一叛逆期結束之後,很快「中間叛逆期」就要開始了。這個階段孩子的特色就是「頂嘴」,也就是「你說A我說B」的狀態,早熟的孩子從5歲就會開始,這也是代表孩子準備獨立的重要階段。面對易怒的孩子,父母更不該和孩子站在同等級上戰鬥,而是要退一步思考「為什麼孩子會這麼煩躁」,作者也提出與孩子有效溝通的三大重點:
重點1:即便覺得孩子做不到,也讓他試試看
「我知道了,那接下來你自己去做喔!」
→或許父母會認為不提醒的話,孩子就不會去做,不過還是耐心等待,如果結果仍失敗,孩子也會因為切身體會而學到了一課。
重點2:孩子嚴重反抗時,要留心孩子的壓力來源
「在幼稚園是不是有碰到討厭的事呢?」
→明明沒有特別干涉孩子,孩子卻嚴重反抗,這時就可以大膽推測,也許孩子在外面有什麼人事物造成他的壓力,或是與老師聯絡,找出問題點。
重點3:用擁抱軟化孩子的心, 千萬不要硬碰硬
「你是很了不起的哥哥,什麼都不用擔心喔!」
→這個階段的孩子雖然想要撒嬌,但是卻因為自尊從中阻撓,孩子也可能變得渾身是刺,因此父母記得不要硬碰硬,而是緊緊抱住孩子,創造獨處的時間,給孩子撒嬌的機會,孩子就會稍微坦誠一點。
【給父母們的教養心靈雞湯】
別被害妄想解讀孩子的言行是「看不起父母、把爸媽當笨蛋耍」,請相信孩子絕對沒有這樣的意圖。
等待孩子成長,先暫時放下有時是必要的。
孩子不聽話,代表他自我意識開始萌芽,也是心靈順利成長的證明。
傾聽孩子、包容孩子,孩子的心情也會隨著自己受到大人珍視,而有所轉變。
其實孩子都知道答案,孩子只是希望不甘心、生氣的心情得到理解。
別為孩子事事包辦,保持恰當的距離感,是親子彼此開始相處的祕訣。
孩子大鬧一場後,別忘了給他一個緊緊的擁抱。
本書特色
★15個管教心法,完整剖析孩子真實內心
圖解孩子反抗、吃醋行為、甚至退化行為,一步步剖析兒童真實心靈與情緒,讓父母不再因為教養問題傷透腦筋。
★10大育兒煩惱,淡定面對孩子的叛逆期
總是質疑自己是否教養失敗的爸媽,從此寬心看待孩子的成長階段。
★6大教養關鍵,有效溝通代替打罵
如何適切的傾聽、理解與讚美,讓家有學齡前幼兒的父母輕鬆看待管教這門功課。
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0~3歲給對愛就不怕寵壞:兒童權威心理醫師的心靈育兒法,化情緒難處為正面力量,陪伴孩子安心探索成長之路
兒童心理醫師專業解惑,讓父母放下質疑對錯的重擔
在0~3歲最關鍵成長的這三年,
打造讓孩子勇敢向前的保護傘,
育兒從此不疲憊、不心累!
★從小天使到小惡魔,充滿挫折的教養路
從第一次伸手捧著自己的孩子開始,看著懷裡小小的、軟綿綿、紅撲撲臉蛋的小傢伙,身為父母的我們經常想著:「啊~希望寶貝平安長大,健康幸福就好。」但是隨著日子一天天過去,教養路上的挫折卻經常磨損了我們這樣簡單的信念。
本書作者經過無數次的個案諮詢與研究後,深刻體會家有幼齡孩童父母的慌張與焦慮,和聽不懂言語的小半獸人互動中產生各種失措與焦躁,加上旁人過多的指點,讓育兒路上更無所適從。
因此作者以兒童心理的專業角度,提出了「給對愛就不怕寵壞」的安心育兒之道,指引父母如何以正確態度面對彼此的「第一次」,如何給對孩子適切回應,察覺孩子的真實需求,找回寬心教養的力量。如果您是以下的家長,那麼你一定要看這本書:
◎剛走在育兒路上,每天看著懷裡的小寶貝卻手足無措的新手父母
◎已有老大經驗,但仍然覺得育兒之路好挫折的雙寶、三寶爸媽
◎育兒之路已經走得老神在在,想繼續探索安心教養之道的爸媽
◎希望能為寶寶每個成長的「關鍵第一次」留下回憶的父母
★能感受父母之愛的孩子最幸福
0~3歲的孩子講不聽、也說不動,從小天使變成了小惡魔,每天都在測試爸媽的耐心底線。面對哭鬧不休的小小孩,我們經常斷了理智線、煩躁不已,但是在吼罵過後,又開始懊悔自己的兇悍,又沮喪於自己的教養是否失敗的疑慮,甚至開始懷疑自己是否能養育出幸福的孩子。以下這些困境,身為父母的你是否覺得很熟悉:
◎寶寶哭個不停,餵了奶、換了尿布還是哭不停
◎孩子愛生氣,一哭就是一個小時
◎孩子只要不開心,就會打父母、丟玩具
◎家中兩個孩子總是吵架搶玩具,學不會分享
◎孩子愛搗蛋,常常在幼稚園捉弄同學
0~3歲時期,是我們能為孩子打造「自我肯定感」的心靈基礎年齡,所謂的自我肯定,簡單來說就是讓孩子抱持著「自己是很重要的」、「活得有價值」、「被需要」的心情。這不需要額外多做些什麼,就像被媽媽抱在懷裡的感覺,就算偶爾鬧個小脾氣,也能繼續一起大笑,透過生活中的點點滴滴,一起享受共處的時光,就能培養出肯定自我的價值。而書中作者還提出更多新世代的教養觀念:
1、落實「境教」,給孩子安心的環境
「境教」就是讓孩子在充分安心的環境下長大。有了安心的環境,就能養成健康的心態,才能培育出終其一生幸福的正向性格。
2、嬰兒的「語言養成」,跟孩子說越多他越安心
父母平時就要和孩子多說話,尤其換尿布、大哭時,將孩子的負面情緒轉述出來,「不舒服嗎?」、「寂寞了嗎?」,更能安撫寶寶的情緒。
3、撒嬌不是錯,適當依賴更會獨立
其實,孩子只要在情緒得到滿足,反而比較會說「我要自己做!」。不讓孩子撒嬌,就是對他撒手不管,這不是「獨立」,而是「孤立」。
★「寵愛,但不寵壞」,親子溝通這樣說
●孩子總吵著要買玩具,賴在賣場不走
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.同理孩子的心情「你喜歡這個對吧。但是說了不行,你很難過吧。」
2.哄哄他並抱緊他。如果沒有效果,就說明理由「但是,我們現在要……。」
3.即使這樣孩子還是不聽話,還是又哭又鬧,不行的事情還是要說不行。
反覆幾次後,孩子就會以自己的方式,學會這個家的規矩,也會慢慢聽你的話。
●孩子不收玩具,常常把玩具倒得到處都是
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1.「你還想要一直一直玩對不對!」
2.「但是媽媽叫你把玩具收起來,你很難過對不對?」
3.「那媽媽傳送能收東西的能量給你喔!」
●睡前孩子要看卡通,說不行就大哭
【寵愛不寵壞的魔法話語】
1. 「小花最喜歡佩佩豬了吧!」
2. 「但是媽媽卻說已經晚上了不能看!很難過吧。」
3. 「我們手牽手一起睡覺吧。已經沒事了喔!」
★媽媽們的育兒兩難,如何將愧疚轉換為愛的力量?
作者在諮商時也曾遇到這樣苦惱的媽媽:「原本因為愛孩子而離開職場,沒想到專心帶孩子之後卻發現每次面對孩子哭鬧,就會煩躁生氣,然後又對那樣的自己失望。」
其實每個孩子天生的氣質、性格各有不同,無須太過自責,當你對孩子發火發過頭時,就想著「現在的他這樣就很好了」,試著放鬆一下,現在做不到的,以後或許就能做到,這樣想就夠了。
研究顯示,「自我肯定感低」的父母,較容易在育兒路上產生自我質疑與焦慮情緒,間接影響到孩子的心靈。書中針對自我肯定感低的父母,提出如何正向自我鼓勵的建議,在養育孩子的過程中,愛的力量讓孩子幸福,我們也因此願意變得更強大。父母們是否也曾出現這些情緒難處:
◎身為職場媽媽,卻好想請育嬰假,每天都想陪著孩子……
→並不是一定要媽媽二十四小時陪伴,才能養出幸福的寶寶。研究顯示,托育的時間長短,並不會影響寶寶的發展,而是鮮少與家人好好吃一頓飯,才會左右孩子的發展。
◎沒想到請育嬰假之後,反而覺得天天面對孩子更容易煩躁……
→請先暫時放下重擔吧!即使會支出一些費用,還是把孩子送托兒所,反而會減輕一些壓力,也會對孩子更溫柔。父母自己要先開心,才能打造出一個開心養育孩子的環境。
◎每次放孩子一個人看卡通,就覺得自己是個失職的母親……
→父母總是很忙碌,做家事、煮飯、處理雜事,很難專心陪孩子玩。無法馬上回應孩子的撒嬌、陪伴時,只要好好傳達當下的狀況與心情,就可以讓他感到安心。
本書特色
► 專業解惑,育兒路上不茫然
兒童心理醫師親自出馬,針對養育嬰幼兒容易產生的疑惑,提出讓父母舒心的解答,教你順利教好0~3歲小小孩。
► 分齡解讀寶寶各階段的心靈發展狀態
圖解實際育兒情境的正確與NG觀念,讀懂孩子情緒,就能輕鬆解決教養大小事。
► 收錄讀者共鳴心聲,負能量一掃而空
運用生動可愛的輕鬆情境漫畫、貼切有趣的情節,讓家有嬰幼兒的父母產生共鳴,看著看著就會爆笑與流淚,負能量也一掃而空。
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一本你希望父母讀過的書(孩子也會慶幸你讀過)
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輕鬆當爸媽,孩子更健康 超人氣小兒科醫師黃瑽寧教你安心育兒暢銷增訂版
2019暢銷增訂版
從四價流感疫苗介紹,
到親餵母乳建議、副食品吃法最新研究報告,
第一手育兒醫學資訊全面更新,
不怕落伍,爸媽更安心!
半夜不睡覺、吃飯不專心,該不該管教?
無緣無故發燒、不小心撞到頭,要不要就醫?
各種育兒現場的慌亂與困惑,讓黃瑽寧醫師給您最專業的解答!
媽媽們最信賴的小兒科醫師黃瑽寧,將在本書中,全面提供嬰幼兒照護需知與疾病介紹,詳實圖文幫助判別病徵、就醫時機,陪伴每位爸媽,輕鬆帶出健康快樂的寶寶!暢銷近十年,本書已成為家庭必備的育兒聖典。隨著醫學日新月異,再度推出「暢銷增訂版」,期待帶給讀者們,最新、最完善的資訊!
2019暢銷增訂搶先看!
‧2019四價疫苗全面實施
六月以上嬰兒,在每年十月接種公費疫苗,隔一個月要接種第二針,保護力會比較好。小孩不需要先吃過雞蛋,再來接種流感疫苗,這個網路謠言是錯誤的。
‧最新副食品建議
現代醫學已證實,太晚給副食品可能會增加過敏機率!因此,美國兒科醫學會與歐洲大部分的國家,現在大多是建議四到六個月開始為嬰兒添加副食品。副食品可以少量多樣化,跟著大人一起吃,一歲以前除了蜂蜜之外,只要是天然食材,都可以吃。
‧這樣算不算性早熟?
性早熟的定義是:女孩未滿八歲,男孩未滿九歲之前,提早出現第二性徵,否則都算是正常的發育。研究發現:雖然現代兒童的第二性徵,確實比古時候的人提早,但是長期追蹤下來,幾乎「所有」的孩子,最後都正常長大。
‧臺灣兒童近視率逐年攀升如何應對?
謹守「20-20-20-20」規範,遠離近視眼!當孩子在近距離用眼時(比如說看書):每二十分鐘,休息二十秒,開窗看二十呎的遠方(約六公尺遠),然後眨眼二十下。
‧其他增訂修改包括:草莓型血管瘤、兒童腸套疊、川崎症等嬰幼兒常見疾病與表徵,睡眠、飲食、便祕、包皮清洗等照護問題,以及嬰幼兒自慰等等。
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你的2歲孩子-又好氣又惹人愛憐的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
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你的3歲孩子-亦敵亦友的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
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用同理心解鎖孩子的情緒:帶你看見孩子的內在需求,讓教養不再卡關
一直以為蒙特梭利只限於幼稚園的學齡前孩子,閱讀了翩翩老師的這本書才發現,蒙特梭利尊重孩子、重引導的教育模式,對於各階段的教育也很適合。──資深國小教師/神老師 沈雅琪
我們在陪伴孩子逐漸獨立的過程中,不管你是父母、老師或是從事兒童發展相關工作的專業人員,切莫忘記愛有界限,在包容中仍要有溫柔的堅持。──兒童青少年精神科主治醫師 翁菁菁
這是一本「真實」的書,翩翩老師不是只是歌頌教養法則的美好,而是讓您看到教養孩子過程中的酸甜苦辣。──臺灣大學教授、無界塾實驗教育機構創辦人 葉丙成
Dimensions:14.8 x 20.8 x 1.36 cm | 5.83 x 8.19 x 0.54 in
Contents: 272 pages
Publisher: 如何
是否有注音:無
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先同理再講理,讀懂青春期,孩子不叛逆:日本權威心理醫師的肯定觀察法,察覺逆反訊號,陪伴孩子度過情緒波動期,打造有愛有溫度的親子關係
\日本專業兒醫明橋大二的「叛時代教養」新作/
★深入剖析青春期孩子的逆反心理★
易怒、省話、晚回家、離家出走、裝病拒學、經常受傷……
孩子透露的SOS訊號,你讀懂了嗎?
傾聽陪伴X心態改變X 信任原則
用包容與同理撫平青春期孩子的情緒波動,
打造有愛、有溫度的親子關係。
父母與青春期孩子的溝通練習──沈雅琪老師、謝玉蓮心理師【專文推薦】
感動480萬名父母心《0~3歲給對愛就不怕寵壞》、《3~6歲做對管教,不打不罵孩子更聽話》作者明橋大二暖心續作!
★走進孩子內心,肯定帶刺的青春期
呱呱墜地的小天使落入人間,大哭大笑是他們最直接的表現方式;慢慢成長後,開始會耍任性,有豐富的情緒表達方式。青春期是成為大人的一個過渡階段,約從國小三、四年級(10歲)開始一直到20歲左右,此階段逐漸成熟的思想,急速成長的身心變化,讓孩子們一方面脫離孩童模樣,同時也讓孩子充滿不安與疑惑,成長的焦慮讓孩子開始頂嘴、拒學、離家……,許多父母也視孩子叛逆難教,親子之間不斷衝突卻毫無實際溝通,以致親子關係逐漸惡化,父母天天沉浸在心碎崩潰的邊緣。
「你以為你是誰!煩死了別來吵我!」
「我才不是你的寶貝、你也不是我的寶貝!」
「反正跟你們說也沒用,我自己解決最快!」
曾幾何時,我的孩子變成長滿尖刺的仙人掌孩子?很矛盾,孩子時而對我撒嬌,時而對我發脾氣;很崩潰,搞不懂孩子究竟在想些什麼?青春期孩子出現暴怒、拒學、受傷、向父母要錢、晚回家、離家出走……那個每天都要跟爸媽擁抱的孩子,到哪裡去了呢?
本書作者明橋大二在學校輔導室及醫院診間諮商多年,他發現開始進入青春期的孩子,心情總是反覆動盪,一下覺得自己已經長大,想要裝作成熟世故,但是一下子又想回到童年,在父母身邊當個撒嬌的寶貝,其實青春期孩子的內心隱藏著許多訊息,等著父母們察覺:
「個性火爆」的孩子,是因為有太多鬱悶的情感;
「只想在家」的孩子,是因為如果不這樣做,傷人的現實就會接踵而來;
「習慣說謊」的孩子,是因為說出實情的話,反而要受到更糟糕的對待;
「沒有幹勁」的孩子,是因為滿懷幹勁地表達意見,也只會遭人否定。
★孩子的反抗,是為了期待被他人肯定與理解
孩子在成長過程中,會歷經學測、升學、社交等種種壓力,這些壓力來源是因為害怕父母用成績替他們打分數;大部分父母總是忍不住想以一己之力去改變孩子,會想著:「要是你可以再這樣一點的話……」、「為什麼你老是不這樣做呢……」父母想要改變孩子的心態,其實反而是在跟孩子說:「現在的你是不行的!」不知不覺間,向孩子傳遞出了否定的訊息,而孩子開始用負面態度回應,殊不知孩子的種種反抗,都是為了「期待能被他人肯定與理解」。
青春期的孩子內心敏感又脆弱,更容易因為他人的言語或霸凌,而自我評價低落,甚至萌生自殘、輕生的念頭,因此對青春期的關懷與教養更需謹慎。
作者在本書提出了深刻的提醒,面對惜字如金的青春期孩子,希望父母們能「先同理再講理」,而不是依照自己的想法窮追不捨、強迫開口。「同理心」才是最好的親子特效藥,對孩子賦予足夠的信任,孩子的內心就能得到支持與安慰,從中得到安定與獨立的力量。
★肯定,讓孩子更有安全感
孩子在青春期階段,無論是荷爾蒙作祟,或是在成熟與幼稚之間來回徘徊,他們經常會做出許多需要父母費心的行為。這時候,請別跟孩子抱怨:「為什麼你連這點小事都做不好?我們做爸媽的為了你都這麼忍耐了……」這樣的話語只會讓孩子覺得自己毫無價值,造成親子衝突不斷,其實孩子只是還不知道如何表達。作者建議父母先好好了解孩子在學校發生的事情,於是提出了與青春期孩子相處的十大守則:
1、放下想要「用大人的力量改變孩子」的想法。
2、放下對於孩子「 為什麼都不做某些事」的不滿。
3、肯定孩子現在所擁有的優點, 以及他盡己所能的努力。
4、不要再給孩子下達指示、命令或是任意干涉。
5、孩子向你說話的時候, 無論再忙碌都要仔細聆聽。
6、遵守和孩子的約定。
7、如果真的對孩子做了不對的事, 要直率地向孩子道歉。
8、放下想要以恐嚇、辱罵、體罰等方式讓孩子動起來的想法。
9、如果是非常擔心的事情, 要和孩子面對面好好談,確實地加以提醒。
10、多跟孩子說「 謝謝」、「謝謝你願意告訴我」在日常互動中提高孩子的自我評價。
★青少年時期最擔心霸凌問題,父母一定要察覺這些變化!
察覺孩子向父母傳遞求援的蛛絲馬跡相當重要,孩子邁入國高中時,成了省話一哥、一姐,在不願與父母溝通的情況下,嚴重低落的自我評價會引發孩子的脫序行為,本書也探討了現今社會關注的校園霸凌現象,作為探討孩子內心的主要議題,父母需要有所警惕,在名為霸凌的背後,可能牽扯到哪些與孩子互動上的隱性不良問題,當您發現孩子有以下變化,很可能是遭到霸凌的訊號:
‧孩子的身體、服裝出現變化──衣服莫名破損、弄髒、身上有明顯外傷
‧孩子的所有物出現變化──文具或小東西壞掉或不見,書本有被撕毀的痕跡
‧孩子的言行出現變化──不再提起學校的事,突然想說退出社團或轉學
‧孩子的感情出現變化──成績退步、老是發呆,容易生氣或哭泣
‧孩子表達出控訴──說出「有人找我麻煩」、「我的東西不見了」等話語
‧孩子發出的其他訊號──收到騷擾信、無聲電話或惡作劇電話,且相當頻繁
‧可能引發輕生念頭的危險信號──孩子突然說「好想要輕鬆一點」,且毫不惋惜地將寶貝的物品分送給別人,暑假或寒假結束前是最危險的時機。
作者諮商時發現,青春期孩子遭遇霸凌時,之所以對父母說不出口的理由,最常聽到的是「不想傷了父母的心」、「不想讓父母擔心」的這種心情。即便自己正飽受折磨,卻還是顧慮到父母的這種溫柔,令人擔憂也為之心痛。每個孩子的個性都不同,面對霸凌的表現也不同,因此身為父母要隨時觀察並關懷,孩子有任何不尋常的表現時,都要審慎瞭解是否遭遇霸凌。
★溫柔說、學放手,孩子的青春不消極
父母們面對孩子的青春期時會感到無所適從,因為青春期是孩子要「轉大人」的過程,許多孩子會有所謂的獨立思考,不願聽從父母的話、對父母表達控訴,卻又會對父母抱持著依賴性。孩子反抗的背後,其實代表著缺乏安全感,他們嚮往著「爸媽能多陪在自己身邊」、「能多聽聽我說的話」,孩子會觀察父母的生活方式與處世態度,並透過模仿學習,一點一滴潛移默化,才逐漸形塑出孩子的個性與品格,而父母面對孩子的訴求,耐心傾聽、同理回應才能達到良好的溝通。
現在開始,化身心靈偵探,聽聽孩子們怎麼說?他們的行為又透露著哪些訊息?透過接納和陪伴,讓我們在正確的溝通下,讀懂青春期孩子不願敞開的內心。
【孩子我想好好懂你,給父母的教養心靈雞湯】
♥不要讓筋疲力竭的孩子更加筋疲力竭,不要讓傷痕累累的孩子更加傷痕累累。
♥一個令孩子感覺不舒服的家,往往是家人之間的關係不那麼融洽,令人神經緊繃、感到窒息的家。
♥「拒學」代表孩子「心靈的溫控裝置」正在運轉
♥教養很重要,學習也很重要,然而最重要的,還是培育孩子的「自我評價」。
♥接受孩子真正的狀態,反而能看見孩子的優點
♥沒辦法撒嬌的人並不是獨立,能夠撒嬌的人才能夠獨立。
♥孩子在行為偏差或是犯罪跟前的最後一道防線,並不是規矩或是管教,而是受到爸媽無微不至的照顧,從中而生「不能背叛爸媽」的那份感恩之心。
► 情境圖解說明,秒懂孩子的不安與徬徨
透過貼近現實生活的情境插畫,深入剖析孩子的內心世界,洞察青少年反抗的原因,專業詳述孩子不願說出口的苦楚。
► 心理醫師專業經驗,破解孩子的逆反心理
針對青春期的惱人問題,提供相關共鳴經驗與正確觀念,坦然面對孩子的真實樣貌,學習放手並信任孩子所做的一切,父母不再因青春期的叛逆傷透腦筋。
► 時下霸凌議題分析,圖解孩子的內心角落
有鑑於霸凌事件頻傳,許多孩子因為霸凌而影響生活與求學,作者提出七大要素,讓父母透過觀察與傾聽來理解孩子,提出正確的支持與回應機制。
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高敏感孩子 細心愛,孩子更自在
\480萬名父母一致信賴!人氣兒醫明橋大二教養新作/
★爸媽安心育兒系列──與敏感兒相處的親子幸福處方★
孩子很膽小、超愛哭?其實是孩子直覺敏銳、同理心強!
兒童權威心理醫師的「細膩慢教養」守護韌性、解讀脆弱,
陪伴高敏感孩子尋找安心角落
●當高敏感媽媽遇上高敏感孩子,育兒試煉就此展開
本書作者太田知子擁有兩個可愛的女兒獅夢和兔可,打從出生以來,從每天起床、吃早餐、上幼稚園、洗澡、睡覺等,其他孩子都能理所做到的事情,他們卻要花數倍的時間才能完成,而且常常因為一點小事就放聲大哭,生活中的言行舉止個個都藏著地雷,而一些令作者狐疑「就這樣」的事情,也能讓孩子大哭大鬧,每天都處於崩潰邊緣,每天都問自己「是不是我的教養方式錯了呢?」
直到有一天,作者發現原來這些都是「高敏感孩子」的獨特氣質,並開始接納理解孩子與生俱來的特質,細心觀察後,從此看見更多敏感特質的美好之處。
●你的孩子有這些特質嗎?──
討厭抱抱親親,不喜歡身體接觸
好奇心旺盛,喜歡開拓新世界
謹慎小心、步步為營
共感力很強,對待病患、老年人會特別溫柔
會因為一句話就特別開心,也會因為一句話就崩潰大哭
明明是小事,孩子的反應卻特別大,
並不是因為孩子難搞,而是因為他們擁有「高敏感特質」。
高敏感孩子(HSC,Highly Sensitive Child)」不是身心障礙,也不是疾病,
他們擁有超乎一般人感受能力的氣質。
高敏感孩子會仔細觀察各種小細節,像是氣氛、人的表情、氣味、聲響等。
無論悲或喜,高敏感孩子的感受都比其他孩子要來的強烈。
作者本身是高敏感族群的一員,孩子也具備高敏感特質,因此親子相處中,總是充滿著許多劇烈的情緒波動,作者以自身經驗說明高敏感孩子在各種親子相處時可能產生的各種心境,引導讀者同理共感,讓父母更了解身邊敏感孩子的內心世界:
高敏感孩子在【嬰兒時期】常有的事
在嬰兒時期的高敏感寶寶很容易被各種聲光刺激而哭泣,也有些高敏感孩子很好帶,情況並不一致。不過,高敏感寶寶還是會出現幾個特徵,例如:
→孩子經常盯著對方的臉或感受到周圍環境的變化
→有些孩子很難入睡,一受到細微的刺激就會馬上醒來
高敏感家長的教養處方 - 回應嬰兒的期望,自我肯定感就能成為心靈的基石
雖然孩子只是嬰兒,但是只要回應孩子的期望與需求,就可以為孩子帶來安心感,從中衍生的自我肯定感就能成為成長的心靈基石,孩子會知道自己是重要的存在。
高敏感孩子在【幼兒時期】常有的事
當孩子進入幼兒時期,準備進入幼兒園這個嶄新的世界。然而高敏感孩子不擅於應付新環境及種種變化,熟悉新環境需要一段時間,所以比其他孩子需要更長更多的時間才能適應新生活。甚至有些孩子會大哭大鬧、耍任性,把父母搞得暈頭轉向。
→孩子的味覺、嗅覺特別敏感
例如堅持白飯是白飯、配菜是配菜的吃法,吃到嘴巴裡也不會讓它們混在一起。
→超豐富的想像力
高敏感孩子的腦袋裡面有超多故事!高敏感孩子擁有驚人的發想力及想像力,無論是人或事物,甚至是掉落的樹葉,他們都能從眼睛看到的物品展開一段故事。
→高感受力
高敏感孩子對於無法溝通的植物、動物、嬰兒、外國人等等,也能敏銳察覺他們的感受,所以身邊的大人常會驚訝孩子對著物品自言自語的情況。
高敏感家長的教養處方 - 尊重孩子的步調,同理情緒,就能讓孩子安心成長
高敏感孩子很會安排自己的生活步調,有時容易鬧彆扭又倔強,因此教養高敏感孩子是很辛苦的,如果孩子的步調沒有得到尊重,或是遭受嚴厲斥責,可能對高敏感孩子造成巨大傷害,或是使他們變得恐慌。
這時候,父母必須採取尊重孩子感受的應對方式,不要太在意身旁的人說你會把孩子寵壞,因為唯有尊重並接納孩子的感受,具體回應孩子,例如:「你覺得很討厭吧」、「你很害怕吧」等等,並且以平穩的聲調跟孩子說話,緊緊的擁抱孩子,孩子就能感到安心。
高敏感孩子在【小學生時期】常有的事
小學時期是高敏感孩子獨特才能綻放的時期,另一方面,對高敏感孩子來說,學校是刺激強烈的場所,因為高敏感孩子感受到的刺激是別人的好幾倍,再開心的事情也會感覺累,也有孩子光是去上學就累翻了。若能讓高敏感孩子了解到老師是自己的同伴,教室也是安全的地方,就可以不斷挑戰各種新事物,過得更自在。
→很在意周遭的人
高敏感孩子對他人體貼,卻習慣將自己的事情擺在後面的順位,對他人溫柔,卻對自己很嚴厲,總是不自覺地在責備自己。
→正義感很強
對於不公平、霸凌、暴力等事件,都會強烈感到憤慨。
→對人生會深度思考
高敏感孩子會深入且仔細思考其他孩子不會想到的事情,例如:生離死別。
高敏感家長的教養處方 - 比起輸贏,讓孩子開心的事才是學校生活最重要的事
孩子在學校一定會有彼此競爭的狀況,而「與人比較」也正是高敏感孩子較不擅長應對的部分,父母務必要讓孩子知道,與其在意輸贏或優劣,樂在其中才是更重要的。
高敏感孩子對於一樣事物的感受會是別人的十倍,甚至是百倍,即使碰到這樣的狀況,也不要以「是你想太多了」或「你真是莫名其妙」去否定孩子的感受,不妨以「原來你有這種感覺啊」、「你覺得很難受吧」等話語來接納孩子的感受。
本書由兒童心理專家明橋大二專業監修,提出與「細心愛,孩子更自在」的育兒原則,針對教養高敏感孩子在日常生活中經常發生的情況,以圖解配合文字說明,提出教養解析與引導,透過對高敏感孩子特質的深入了解,去除表象行為帶來的誤解,看見孩子內心的寶石,讓孩子充滿自信地長大成人。
高敏感孩子溫柔、細心、富有正義感,並且具有超乎一般人的感受能力,細心觀察並瞭解高敏感孩子的心靈之後,必定可以發掘孩子擁有的美好特質。
1. 第一本由高敏感母親視角撰寫,讓父母齊聲「我家孩子也是這樣呀!」的共鳴教養書。
2.收錄高敏感孩子評量表+敏感兒的56個情緒小劇場【全圖解】
3. 由日本知名兒童心理醫師明橋大二監修,建立親子溝通與教養的橋樑,提供與高敏感孩子相處的正確育兒建議。
Specifications 規格
Dimensions: 14.8 x 20.8 x 1 cm | 5.8" x 8.2" x 0.4"
Contents: 128 pages
Publisher: 和平國際
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你的7歲孩子-保守退怯的二年級
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Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
你的1歲孩子
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
爸媽不瞎忙:凱若的幸福家庭行事曆
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
你的5歲孩子,開朗而愉悅的年齡
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
安心做父母,在愛裡無懼:黃瑽寧陪你正向育兒,用科學實證打造幸福感家庭
超人氣醫師黃瑽寧,繼《輕鬆當爸媽,孩子更健康》後的又一教養力作!
「當我們找回身為父母的自信時,你很快就會發現,養育子女是人生中無比快樂的事。」──黃瑽寧
快時代裡的片段資訊,眾說紛紜的育兒知識,令人無所適從、真偽難辨!教養書看得愈多,焦慮以及不安心境更顯膨脹。徬徨的你,也經常處於這些兩難困境嗎?
孩子哭的時候,到底抱還是不抱?為了小孩未來的競爭力,雙語教學越早開始越好?
培養閱讀習慣,可以用電子書或互動式APP進行親子共讀嗎?怎麼讚美孩子,才能讓他自信卻不自戀?
你,是不是也正陷入「教養恐慌症」?是否也因各方說法不一,亂了育兒步伐?
深呼吸,請安心。
以研究實證為湯底,父母之愛為佐料。這次,黃瑽寧要以為人父、人夫角度,從睡眠模式、安全依附、語言發展、親子溝通、手足教養、爸爸育兒、學習引導、幸福婚姻等共九大面向,為你解讀建基於過去半世紀,各種兒童發展、心理學與家庭人文科學的研究,為你點出一條讓父母有成長,讓家庭有幸福感的教養之路。
「育兒不僅僅是教養,在陪伴孩子的過程中,你也可以從他們身上,反映出真實的自己。只要心態對了,你可以學會更愛自己,並且散發出成熟、自信的光芒。」黃瑽寧衷心認為,當以科學實證為基底,採正向態度堅定抓大放小原則,我們就不會被眾說紛紜干擾,而忘記初為父母的感動。
48個育兒主題X60張圖表,健康科學教養新知,親情凝聚與時俱進
✔童年家庭創傷 → 影響人一生健康
✔成長性思維 → 父母最該送給孩子的禮物
✔代養者的重要 → 一個人照顧嬰幼兒,肯定會累死
✔POWER五字訣 → 建立寶寶安全依附感
✔法勒說話術 → 提高寶寶語言熟悉度
✔五種正向對話原則 → 營造和諧親子互動
✔LATER方法五步驟 → 有效建立行事規矩
✔夫妻之間吵完健康的架 → 要在孩子面前和好……
Recommended Age: Parents
Dimensions: 14.8 x 21 x 2.08 cm | 5.82" x 8.26" x 0.81"
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
你的6歲孩子-鍾情而反抗的年齡
鍾情而反抗的年齡。
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
德州媽媽沒有崩潰:早安!今天又是被迫營業的一天(隨書附贈:名畫二創哏圖共4張)
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
小餐桌的60道醬料理
IN ORDER TO PROCESS A RETURN PLEASE SEE THE FOLLOW STEPS:
Step 1 : Contact us at info@yobabyshop.com.
Step 2 : Pack your merchandise and ship via any carrier of choice
Step 3 : Refund will be processed within 10 business days after the returned merchandise is received. Original shipping charges will not be credited.
(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
孩子,你的敏感我都懂
高度敏感的氣質會讓孩子與眾不同,當別人暗示你的孩子有問題的時候,不要讓孩子相信這些話。善意的包容與適切的引導,敏感的心將可以在充分的安全感下盡情發揮觀察力與思考力,開創非凡的人生。 你的孩子是不是:
●太容易受到驚嚇●常常抱怨衣服粗糙扎人、襪子縫線不舒服、衣領標籤磨得皮膚癢●經過興奮的一天後,難以入睡●直覺強,好像可以看透你的心●總是有問不完的問題●沒有陌生人在旁的時候表現得比較好
●在吵雜的環境中會顯得焦躁不安●無論你動過家具或換了髮型,小細節的改變他都會注意到
如果孩子大致符合以上描述,或雖然只符合其中一兩項但表現得十分明顯,那麼他很可能具有高度敏感的特質。這樣的孩子可能讓人覺得貼心,也可以教人抓狂。如果你願意嘗試著接納他的感受,調整教養的方式,教導孩子適應改變的方法,保護孩子免於受到訊息風暴的摧殘及社交活動造成的壓力,你將會擁有一個懂事、觀察力敏銳又容易溝通的孩子。
大約有15~20%的孩子從小比較愛哭、容易發脾氣、會說出充滿哲思的話、常常獨處或顯得若有所思──這些貼心卻難帶的寶貝,他們都有可能是高度敏感的孩子。這些孩子因為特別容易接受到環境中感官或情緒的刺激,而且處理訊息的方式也比較仔細、比較徹底,所以當各種管道的訊息大量湧入腦中,超出他們能夠負荷的範圍,就可能會因為反應不及而呈現當機狀態,或由於挫折和混亂而出現行為、情緒失控的現象。 本書詳細介紹這些具高度敏感氣質孩子的特徵,探討家長個性如何影響親職功能,也呈現出養育特定年紀(從嬰兒、幼兒、學齡孩童到青少年時期)高度敏感孩子可能遇到的挑戰。當這些與眾不同的孩子承受過大壓力時,言行也許出現幼稚退化,心情好的時候,舉止則又常有超齡表現。不同發展階段的孩子面臨的環境刺激有很大的差異,造成的影響及需要的協助也有很大的變化;如果家長能清楚孩子在各個階段可能會出現的狀況,對於目前的教養會更加得心應手。
只要能夠瞭解、接納孩子的特質,用對的方式教養、引導,擁有一個高度敏感的孩子其實是一件幸福的事;但是如果抓不到要領,則很可能在無意中傷害孩子,導致親子關係的緊張。這本書提供了如何養育敏感孩子的方法,你可以也應該做為孩子的避風港,讓他自在的成長、肯定自我的價值,還能適應良好、勇於發揮獨特的創造力。
Recommended Age: 12歲以上
Dimensions:14.8 x 21 x 1.62 cm | 5.83 x 8.27 x 0.64 in
Contents: 324 pages
Publisher: 遠流
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你的0歲孩子-生命最初的十二個月
您真的認識自己的孩子嗎?請不要再孩子才學會握東西的時候,就充滿期待的握著它的小手教他寫字:或是在他傷心挫折的時候,不在意他的眼淚,只給他長篇大論,想要對他曉以大義。真正的愛是去認識孩子的能與不能,需要與不需要,你真的認識自己的孩子嗎?無論您的孩子今年幾歲,正面臨怎樣的成長功課,這個系列為您和您的孩子而寫的專書,愛他就請先了解他。
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(1) 詳細活動辦法與規定請以官網公佈為準 https://www.yobabyshop.com/ 若有於活動網頁說明之未盡事宜,YoBaby Shop 保有隨時修改、暫停與終止本活動之權利,如有任何變更內容或詳細注意事項將於粉絲專頁公告,恕不另行通知。
From time to time there may be information on our website that contains typographical errors, inaccuracies, or omissions that may relate to product descriptions, pricing, and availability. Yo! Baby Shop reserves the right to correct any errors, inaccuracies or omissions and to change or update information at any time without prior notice (including after you have submitted your order). If you do not wish to continue your purchase after pricing or other information has been corrected, please contact us right away and we will work with you to cancel or return your order.
(2) 使用本活動折扣所購買之商品,商品實際折抵後若未達免運之門檻,則需負擔商品運費。
You will be responsible for shipping charge if the discounted total price of your order is under the $85 Free Ground Shipping offer.
(3) 活動為年度Final Sale,除產品瑕疵外不接受任何形式的退貨退款或換貨要求。
All promotional events are FINAL SALE. We are unable to accept any return or exchange with an exception of a defective product.
(4) Yo! Baby Shop 提供「7天調價保證」: 凡於特價前7天內購買的商品皆可連繫 Yo! Baby Shop 客服, 我們將以禮卡的形式將差額退還給您.
Yo! Baby Shop is now offering 7 day price adjustment guarantee. Merchandise purchased within 7 days prior to it's sale price is eligible for price adjustment. Price difference will be returned to customers in the form of store gift card.
Please review below list of vendors and their warranty terms:
Any warranty may be claimed by emailing us at info@yobabyshop.com.
We reserve the right to refuse any ineligible claim.
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My 15-month old LOVES this book. This is his go to during snack time! We are considering buying him additional books from this collection for Xmas!
I have order books for my daughter who is learning Chinese and she uses them every day! I can also learn as adult with her :)
My toddler, 1 year old, loves this and loves opening all the flaps.
these books make my kid to think and to ask questions. it's very educational