一本你希望父母讀過的書（孩子也會慶幸你讀過)
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一本你希望父母讀過的書（孩子也會慶幸你讀過)

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「沒有最好的父母，但有願意為了孩子改變的父母。」──20年資歷心理治療師給父母的最佳建議

上一輩留下的影響，我們也很容易傳給孩子；
愛是這樣；同樣的，不安與傷害也是。
沒有父母是完美的，重點不是錯誤本身，而是我們如何改正錯誤。

｛我們與孩子的關係，很可能就是我們與父母的關係。｝
成為父母後，每個人都會在孩子身上或與伴侶相處時，重新經歷一次自己的童年。我們會看見自己童年受過的創傷，以及這些問題是如何影響我們的親子或家庭。唯有願意回顧、整理、沉澱；才能從過往的經驗中修復自我、親子和好。
 
｛每個父母都希望孩子快樂，都不想把孩子教壞，但要如何才能做到這點呢？｝
我們從上一代獲得的教養，以及那些教養方式對我們養兒育女的影響，也可能是我們在面對孩子時，可能會犯下的錯誤。這本書將幫你：
瞭解自己的成長如何影響你的親子教養。
接受你也會犯錯這個事實，並學習如何改進。
打破惡性循環，避免陷入窠臼。
處理自己與孩子的感受。
瞭解不同行為所傳達的訊息。

★關係整理、修復、和好的三堂課：
這不是一本「完美」的教養計畫──本書作者菲莉帕身為心理治療師，有機會觀察親子關係是如何變調的，以及如何讓它恢復正常運作。這包括如何處理你和孩子的感受；如何傾聽孩子，以便更瞭解他們；如何與孩子建立真正的聯繫，而不是陷入令人疲憊的衝突或退縮的模式。

從關係整理、修復、和好的練習中，覺察是什麼因素阻礙了親子溝通，相處時的負面情緒來自何處？怎麼做可以破裂與修復親子關係，讓它更加深厚。

第一堂課：回溯過往經驗的回馬槍→過去如何影響現在？
第二堂課：覺察這種現象／情緒來自何處？→練習覺察自我
第三堂課：破裂與修復→不怕錯誤，只怕不願修復

讚譽推薦

沈雅琪  資深教師、神老師
陳志恆  諮商心理師/親子教養作家
洪仲清  臨床心理師
魏瑋志(澤爸)  親職教育講師
羅寶鴻  蒙特梭利親職教育專家
(依姓氏筆畫)

「這本《你希望父母讀過的書》，可以做為你身為父母無力與無助時刻的心理支持。因為，這本書著重的不只是育兒技巧，例如如何餵食、如何哄睡、如何陪孩子讀書、如何建立規矩，更是告訴你，在育兒過程中，最重要的是什麼？把握那些最重要的事情，其他的都別太執著。

所有的父母，在與孩子互動時，內在都上演著許多小劇場，不論是你是否察覺到。這本書，也會帶你去看清楚這些小劇場，在演著什麼戲碼，透過對那些瞬間想法與感覺的深刻覺察，反思自己的生命歷程，更加了解自己，並修正自己對待孩子的態度與作法。

這是我很喜歡這本書的地方！」──陳志恆  諮商心理師/親子教養作家

「演講上千場，發現到親子之間最重要的東西，其實只有『關係』而已。親子關係深厚，我們說的教養話語，孩子才願意聽得進去。關係緊密，孩子才願意說出內心話，與我們進行溝通。而關係的累積，父母絕對是掌控者，因為孩子都是非常的渴望得到爸媽的愛，可惜的是，父母對孩子的愛，往往卻用錯了方法。

我們如何對待孩子，往往是受到過往成長的影響。讓我們透過這本書，能更加瞭解自己，重新建立與孩子牢不可破的親子關係吧。」──魏瑋志(澤爸)  親職教育講師

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